[gleason]

after a LTR of 12 yrs, separated for the past 4(he moved). i was to join him in marriage and move out to him. an e-mail arrived with very brief break-up..simply he's not "THERE". one very brief phone call stating very superficial reasons and a promise to call back to talk in more detail...never happened.
after countless requests by phone for some discussion, some finality, some understanding..no response for 7wks.
then finally again, very briefly that he has been seeing someone for a "few" months and getting married.
can someone actually move on that quickly? what goes on mentally? can someone actually forget about their ex that quickly?
help!