[TaylorOneal]

Okay This will be long lol!! My sister in law is soooo ridiculous! I am going to give some examples..

-I spent 300 on clothes for SD and this included tennis shoes and sandals that are dressy or for casual the SAME DAY she says. I need to go buy her some good shoes

-I bought her a rought iron toddler bed and we ended up painting it white I wanted to do her room at our new house in flowers SIL buys her a princess (disney princess) toddler bed and the stuff to match it and asks us to give her white bean in trade for princess because it already all matches

-now she went and got all this lady bug stuff for 30 dollars from a friend of hers and has proceeded to do her room while I wasnt there.

-I work nights and so does my husband so she constantly rags on me for sleeping later than she does.

-my daughter doesnt get candy whenever she sees her she completely discards our rules junks her up on candy, soda, tea, just sugar

-she makes comments about our finances and how we spend our money

***Easter she told me SHE WANTED MY DAUGHTER TO WAKE UP AND DO THE EASTER BUNNY AT HER HOUSE!!!!***

Now she doesnt work (they live 4 houses down from us ) she feeds her 7 MONTH OLD pudding cookie candy pops soda tes and all kinds of jjunk I never say anything to her about it. She spent 200 dollars on 3 outfits and now she is complaining about being broke and I dont say anything negative to her! I mean the list goes on and on but my issue is since I am only her step mother and the sister in law has been an important role in the childs life she feels competition with me or something?? My husband allowsa this because no one wants to upset her due to her stubborn, ignorant, uneducated and flat out dramatic ways of starting problems. How do I tell her in decent way that she is crossing the line and I am her mom not you just be the aunt and let me do this??

[biteme]

Minus te uneducated stuff, just tell her what you said here. She needs a BIG wake up call and that will give it to her alright!