[Isabella82]

Please I need help. Another relationship of mine has failed and I can't stand it!! I have had 3 relationships all last 2 years. Last night my b/f told me that we were not good for eachother, after a stupid disagreement and he said that he no longer cared and that I think I am such a good gf when I am not.

We used to live together for financial reasons but because I wasn't paying rent (I was in school, had an internship and working) his parents were paying his rent etc... he wouldn't help me clean anything that was one problem.

The fight last night was about the fact that he thinks telling a friend of the opposite sex that they look hot is okay, even if you have a gf because its just a self esteem booster. I disagree, I think that if you are in a relationship you should not be saying that to a "friend"

It just hurts so bad because we were doing so good, and I really do love him. I love him so much, we just fight way too much, but the fights are always so dumb.

One time about a year ago he pushed me once, I broke up with him for a long time, but he begged and begged so I took him back, and he has not done anything since then. Now I have even fallen more in love with him, and it is hurting me.

He used to confine me in a closet if we had a fight and I wanted to leave, but he stopped doing that. He often tells me that my family sucks, that they don't do anything for me, that all they want is my money, that I don't make enough money, I need a new job, that I am useless and that I don't do enough for him, buy him enough things. (his parents are millionaires!! My parents are broke and I owe 45K from a car and student loans and he wants me to buy him things!!

A while ago he wrote inappropriate things on his friends of the opposite sex myspace etc... then he is going to go visit them first tells me he wants me to go with, and then tells me he doesn't want me to be there because I won't have any fun and all they will be doing is talking about the past stuff.

It just hurts so bad, because we really did have some awesome times, and I am just starting to feel like I am going to go through life alone. Most of my friends are married and having babies and here I am newly single.

I can not take it anymore, I hate it, I just can't eat, can't sleep, thats all I think about. I called him over and over again last night, no answer...

Please help me!!