Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
just a little frustrated...i have to choose what to do regarding a job..and i am supposed to be starting one soon and another agency is telling me they can get me something higher and that i would just have to go on some interviews..so i am telling my b/f this stuff and he is telling me he can't tell me what to do which i know but it would be nice to hear a lot more than that...he did give his opinion saying it may not be worth it etc..but i guess i want to be able to talk about it for a longer amount of time..the other night he was falling asleep on the phone and he wanted to go to bed early so we hung up--today he calls me but only able to speak for a few minutes which is fine..i call him a couple of hours later and he was done with work and just cleaning his car that he uses for work and after 10 minutes he had to go..it really wasnt for anything that he HAD TO DO..but i did want to speak longer especially since i had time to kill before i went back to work and after 10 minutes he said he wanted to go..it just seems like i was bothering him--he didnt sound in bad mood with me or anything and i even said am i bothering you at work and he says no..but still i can sense he wanted to go..
it kind of made me upset and i didnt say anything and didnt make any comments about it..but doesnt it sound like he isnt too interested?i really feel like not speaking to him long tonight almost to make him feel like i do..maybe i am being too sensitive, i am not sure really sure--which is why i am here asking if i am and if this is something to let go and maybe i am being to clingy.....
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