[sungrl]

when in a serious relationship and not long distance--do you think you should spend most holidays with your S/O's family..like switch each year..or go to his place for dinner and then back to yours for dessert etc etc

Do you think its weird if you were invited to say an easter dinner last year at your b/f's family's place but not this year...easter is coming and my b/f really has not mentioned anything about dinner..The thing is--my parents will be alone this year b.c other family will be going elsewhere so i would feel guilty for leaving them and wont most likely.

Another dilema of mine is me feeling uneasy about inviting him to a dinner at my place..we dont have that long long table where everyone can eat around..we dont have that much room..he comes from a house where everyone(like 9 people) can eat around..that to me is like an amazing thing almost..i feel bad for feeling this way b.c i love where i come from, proud of who i am...but i still cant help feeling this way and almost like i dont want him to come dinner.

so i guess my problem is him not even mentioning dinner yet and wondering if its weird which is why i am asking you guys and the other is my uneasy feeling.

Thanks.

[manders0724]

I think that you should just casually bring it up. Be like, hey, I was wondering whats going on this easter, maybe you wanna come to my families house for dinner this year?

And dont be embarassed about your family. Im sure he would be happy to go with you. And even if your table isnt made for that many people, you can always make room. And I bet your parents would enjoy the company of both of you together.