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Old 4th April 2007, 12:20 PM   #1
akarol
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My ex getting remarried

I need some helpful advice. I have been divorced for three years, and my ex and I have two children together . In the three years, my ex has had another child and has now decided to marry again. I just found out about this from my ex mother-in-law because me ex wasn't even going to tell me. My children hardly see their father, and they have no idea that he has another child. He is getting married in two weeks and plans to tell them about it afterwards and bring the baby to meet them. His soon to be wife refuses to be involved and won't come to meet me or the children. I am very unsure how I should handle this or how to feel. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
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Old 15th April 2007, 8:11 PM   #2
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I need some helpful advice. I have been divorced for three years, and my ex and I have two children together . In the three years, my ex has had another child and has now decided to marry again. I just found out about this from my ex mother-in-law because me ex wasn't even going to tell me. My children hardly see their father, and they have no idea that he has another child. He is getting married in two weeks and plans to tell them about it afterwards and bring the baby to meet them. His soon to be wife refuses to be involved and won't come to meet me or the children. I am very unsure how I should handle this or how to feel. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
I can't believe what I just read! My God! What a selfish b-i-t-c-h his future wife must be to have his baby but not want anything to do with his first two children?

While I agree that the children should be able to see their father and meet their half-sibling, I hope your ex-H opens his eyes to what kind of woman he is marrying this time around.

I think you should tell your children what is going on. You don't say their ages, but if they are not very young they might want to make the decision themselves as to whether or not they want to see their father/baby. How does this woman think she will keep his kids out of their lives when they get older? jeez some people amaze me.
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