Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
I'm 23 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 3 years and we currently live together. I love her very much and in the beginning it was hard to give my trust to her completely because my last two girlfriends ended up cheating on me. She knows this and over these three years she has proven trustworthy.
However, she just called me, in tears, because last night she was drunk and she said some guy kissed her and she kissed him back. I told her we would work through it and I still love her, but it really hurts. I've worked very hard to not be jealous or intrusive despite having been taken advantage of in the past. I'm not sure what to do, I have this awful feeling in my gut just thinking about the whole situation. Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated.
Does she know this guy personally? Or was it some random guy?
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No problems, everything has been great. As far as I know it was just some randomer.
1DeadBitch, when you say "Good for her" are you suggesting that this was done on purpose to end the relationship? Because I hadn't considered that, I assumed it was an alcohol induced mistake. I wouldnt want to keep her in a relationship she doesnt want to be in.
No problems, everything has been great. As far as I know it was just some randomer.
1DeadBitch, when you say "Good for her" are you suggesting that this was done on purpose to end the relationship? Because I hadn't considered that, I assumed it was an alcohol induced mistake. I wouldnt want to keep her in a relationship she doesnt want to be in.
I think that drink is more an excuse than a mistake. I'm not saying she wants to end things, maybe she is just curious about other poeple. That is what breaking up and getting back together is all about.
Young girls are the horny equivalent of 40 year old guys.
Honestly now if you're last 2 girlfriends cheated on you, YOU'RE the problem.
You had better learn how to LAY THE WOOD, don't "make love" like a metrosexual, no matter what you see in sitcoms women wan't get hit by a truck, not smothered in tenderness. Act like a MAN or someone else will.
Take her from behind doggie style and pull her hair, she'll have a WHOLE different view of you from then on, learn how to go down on her, use her like a plastic F--- doll, don't worry she WILL like it. Do her hard, do her slow, invent positions, put your pinky in that place you've never gotten near. Bang her like you're Atilla the Hun and she's your slave.
If you can't do these things you will have to hand your balls back into the club and resign you manhood until you can.
Who knows.....for some reason my brain stopped working after reading this?...or maybe just because I want to go home, and its the first post i read today?....i don't know anymore
but she cheated....alcohol is always an excuse....but I don't mistake?
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omg...its true 
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