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Old 11th March 2001, 5:12 PM   #1
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advice on how to be spontaneous?

I need some help. My girlfriend tells me i am not spontaneous enough. Anyone have any advice
 
Old 11th March 2001, 5:43 PM   #2
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Re: advice on how to be spontaneous?

Yes, ask your friend who appointed her critic of your personality.
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Old 13th March 2001, 10:38 AM   #3
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Re: advice on how to be spontaneous?

Mercedes,

If your relationship is pretty solid, I'm guessing she feels that you've hit a plateau. She may be feeling a little lack of passion and a little too much routine.

She's just looking for a little imagination now and then - - a walk in the park instead of renting a movie. An unexpected phone call to tell her you love her.

Sometimes we doubt love that is expressed in a routine way, I suppose. She's just looking for a little variety.
 
Old 13th March 2001, 11:20 AM   #4
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So sorry I missed the point here.....

Perhaps I need a vacation. I didn't pick up that this was a lesbian relationship...between Mercedes and her girlfriend. You know, females call their female buddies who they just hang out with girlfriends so I thought this was just one of her female buddy friends commenting on her personality.

I apologize for my stupidity.
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Old 13th March 2001, 12:36 PM   #5
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More stupid than I thought....

I just read everything again and maybe this is a guy who just used the name Mercedes for the purpose of posting.

My IQ is slipping fast. Again, sorry Mercedes if you are a guy.
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Old 9th April 2001, 10:09 PM   #6
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Re: More stupid than I thought....

Yes, I may be more stupid than I thought.
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