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Greetings/courtesy to the unattractive or not?
I hear too many stories concerning that of ugly/overweight people almost always getting treated as if they don't exist, shoved around, stared at, whispered about, and such. Vanessa, Minnillo, the MTV VJay, dressed as a morbidly obese woman with facial prosthetics but cosmetic make-up, however, the face still wasn't bad, just the hair and clothes and body. Anyway, she quoted the exact same treatment. That's an extreme example, but how about the much less unattractive who quote the same things? I tried it myself. I wore a fat suit that made me appear about 150-60 pounds add markings on my face (done with professional help) for acne scars. AND, unlike Vanessa did in her stunt, I wore no cosmetic make-up but had some to make my skin dull. My hair was a mess. My clothes super frumpy. I did not wear facial prosthetics though. Anyway, however, I received smiles and greetings and small conversation like a normal person, even from this hot fashionista, jocky guy. No disgusted stares or whispers.
I was treated like "the friend" and even in a few cases, "the crush".
I see other noticeably and significantly overweight and unattractive folks who receive the same mild and friendly treatment, even out of the professional environment.
What's your take?
Last edited by GoldPenny; 20th March 2007 at 8:46 PM..
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