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The girl I'm in love with and who claims to love me has a boyfriend... Her boyfriend is her brother's best friend. We've been sneaking around for probably about 6 months now... SHe says she wants to dump him and be with me but its just complicated... and she doesn't know how to do it...
I was just wanting to know what people think about this... is this a valid excuse? is she just having her cake and eating it too? does she truly love me probably?

Lil past history... we were together for about 9 months then she dumped me and started seeing this other guy... they are a distance relationship, so me and my ex have been sneaking around since then. We still love each other, so I think. She still claims she wants to marry me and spend her life with me. We are very intimate, but sex is a rarity... She says she doesn't want it to be just about that, which I find it as an excuse because she's guilty. But regardless guilt, we do everything but sex on a consistent basis. What is going on here?

Part of me wants to completely trust her... I definitely feel she loves me... but just think if she really loved me, she'd do anything to be with me. Cause if she'd dump him, I'd be right there for her... I think it'd be easy to overlook the fact its her brother's best friend, although she does live with her brother. Who cares though, its her life. Maybe she is waiting to have a reason to dump him? I don't know... some advice would be nice... please...