[MotherGooze]

So there is this guy I really like. And I think he really likes me too but he confuses me so much.
I occasionally sing in the blues bar where he works. I first sang there a couple of weeks ago. He was working there and was very impressed by my singing skills But I'm very shy so it was hard for us to start conversating.

Now I've been going to the bar every friday, with some friends, and he's always watching me, and when I look back he starts blushing and it's kinda cute. My bassplayer told me he a crush on me, and his female coworker says that as well. Apparently he asked his coworker tot text message him everytime I'd go there, so that he 'accidentally' also would be there. He's also asked a lot about my love life to people I know. He wanted to know so many things about me.

But everytime I want to start talking to him he acts like he doesn't care. He tries an act cool or something. Last week I finally had the courage to ask him on a date. I was totally shy but he was not! he was talking and talking, and I was listening. He told me he had feelings for someone but that it was not going to work out. I don't think it was bout me. Also when I asked him to do something with me next week he said he wouldn't have time. I know he's very busy but I thought it might be an excuse.

I think the problem might be that I'm a single mother. He said to me he wouldn't be ready for children and all that. I think he really likes me but is afraid of my situation. I don't really know. It's not like I do want anything to happen right away but i would love to get to know him, because he's a very nice person and we have a lot in common. I also have this really weird stommach feeling whenever I see him. I normally don't fall in love with someone who I don't really know that well, so this is so akward. And the fact that I'm asking for numbers and asking someone on a date is akward too.

Eh something funny. When I asked for his number he didn't want to give it to me and acted all weird. Said he didn't know it by heart and he didn't have his mobile with him. But then I heard that he has a severe form of dyslexia so when I saw him again I asked if I could put my number in his mobile. i wonder why he didn't want to tel me. Having dyslexia isn't something to be ashamed of right?

[alphamale]

I don't think this dude is very interested MG

[MotherGooze]

Originally Posted by alphamale

I don't think this dude is very interested MG

Then why is he asking so many things about me and always keeps an eye on me when he's working. He does that so much, that my friends have been making jokes about it. That's so confusing to me.

[alphamale]

Originally Posted by MotherGooze

Then why is he asking so many things about me and always keeps an eye on me when he's working. He does that so much, that my friends have been making jokes about it. That's so confusing to me.

maybe he's just weird

[MotherGooze]

I don't know. He told his coworker that he would love to be with a girl like me, but that a girl like me would never be interested in him. Maybe he's just naive and doesn't realise that I really like him in that way. I have a lot of male friends, more then I have female friends, so me asking for his number shouldn't make him realise that I do like him a lot. It's not like I've really shown that i do like him. Maybe that's why he acts like that?


Or maybe he is just weird

[Dadaal]

Originally Posted by MotherGooze

I don't know. He told his coworker that he would love to be with a girl like me, but that a girl like me would never be interested in him. Maybe he's just naive and doesn't realise that I really like him in that way. I have a lot of male friends, more then I have female friends, so me asking for his number shouldn't make him realise that I do like him a lot. It's not like I've really shown that i do like him. Maybe that's why he acts like that?


Or maybe he is just weird

Or may be he likes your voice

[MotherGooze]

Thought I'd give you an update. Apperently he is just out of a serious relationship and he was hurt big time by that girl. He really do like me but he's not really ready for a serious relationship and if he were to go on dates with me he's afraid he'll hurt me even though he likes me a lot!

Bah, why does that always happen to me. I wasn't talking about relationships, I just wanted to get to know him. He wants to wait till he's ready but I don't feel like putting energy into something that might not work out anyway. And the worst thing is that he doesn't communicate with me, I have to hear this from my friend or his coworker. Maybe he isn't ready but I also think it's kinda childish. We normally had a date in two weeks, but I cancelled it in an honnest way. I told him that I really liked him but I had the feeling that it wasn't the same for him. That I didn't want to get all dissapointed and maybe hurt. I am a bit dissapointed though, I don't feel attracted to someone very fast and it's hard for me to get dates.