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Old 16th March 2007, 5:51 PM   #1
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Question re a man's point of view.

I have a question for the guys.

The guy I am dating hasn't called in 2 days which is fine, we all need me time and I know he will call when he can.

My question is when you haven't called in a few days for whatever reason it may be, do you want her to call you? Or would you mind if she did? (or txt, email and so on)

I am just curious because I was going to ask him how some pics went that he was editing but wasn't sure if I should just call or message him. Or wait until he calls and ask him about it when we chat then.

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Old 16th March 2007, 5:55 PM   #2
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Rule of thumb: Call as little as possible, it can only work to your advantage.
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Old 16th March 2007, 5:57 PM   #3
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Give it another day... and if he hasn't called then call him... My guy usually calls me everyday, sometimes not everyday... but we manage to keep the communication going here and there. We both have times were we just want to be left alone. Maybe he is just busy.

Call him tomorrow if you want to talk to him.
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Old 16th March 2007, 5:58 PM   #4
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I would give it a couple more days, then just call him. Just call once though, leave a message if you get the voice mail, and leave it at that. I'm sure he'll return the call. If he answers, just say, hey! how are you doing! And go from there...don't question him about his not calling...unless he acts strangely, as if he's hiding something...then there might be somethin going on there; but it's hard to say when I dont know the guy. Good luck
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Old 16th March 2007, 6:29 PM   #5
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I'm not worried he usually calls me every day as well. He didn't call for a day or two before and I just let him call which he did.

I just wanted to ask him about what he was working on but didn't want to do so if he needed me time and so on.

Thanks, ya I wouldn't ask about it why or what happened or something. When we chat next will just pick up where we left off.
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