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Old 12th March 2007, 1:50 PM   #1
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Talking He came in to my work again today!!!

Ahhh!! Just about ten minutes ago!

He asked to talk to my coworker, John. He seems to be buddying up to him now.

I am going to lunch. If he comes in while I am gone, I left my phone number for John to give him.

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Old 12th March 2007, 2:13 PM   #2
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That is good news that he came back Luv, but I am not so sure if giving your number to someone else to give to him was the best idea, but hopefully I am wrong.
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Old 12th March 2007, 3:40 PM   #3
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That is good news that he came back Luv, but I am not so sure if giving your number to someone else to give to him was the best idea, but hopefully I am wrong.
Well, I didn't know that John had already called him. Barrett showed up to find out what John wanted. But, he could've just called. He didn't. He took the time to stop by.

Anyways, after finding that out, I snatched my phone number back from John.

Barret stopped by shortly after I got back from lunch. Him and John talked in the back.

Barrett told him that he did feel *something* going on between us. He got that feeling. So, John told him point blank, (cause he's super shy) that if he calls...I'd go out on a date with him.

Barrett told him that he's leaving for Chicago for business for a month. So he's unavailable till after that.

So, if he calls when he gets back...we'll have to wait and see.

At freakin' least the ball's in his court now. I feel good about that.
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Old 12th March 2007, 3:56 PM   #4
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Well, I didn't know that John had already called him. Barrett showed up to find out what John wanted. But, he could've just called. He didn't. He took the time to stop by.

Anyways, after finding that out, I snatched my phone number back from John.

Barret stopped by shortly after I got back from lunch. Him and John talked in the back.

Barrett told him that he did feel *something* going on between us. He got that feeling. So, John told him point blank, (cause he's super shy) that if he calls...I'd go out on a date with him.

Barrett told him that he's leaving for Chicago for business for a month. So he's unavailable till after that.

So, if he calls when he gets back...we'll have to wait and see.

At freakin' least the ball's in his court now. I feel good about that.
I just think that it would be easier for you two to talk face to face instead of having a mediator.

How did he get your number to begin with if you took it off that guys desk?

Hope he calls.
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Old 12th March 2007, 4:12 PM   #5
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I just think that it would be easier for you two to talk face to face instead of having a mediator.

How did he get your number to begin with if you took it off that guys desk?
I didn't give the go ahead for John to call him. He just did. We were joking about on Friday. I didn't think he'd do it, I underestimated him.

When he came in to talk with John, that's when John gave him my number.

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He won't. I have to believe he's single for a reason. Like any other guy in my neck-of-the-woods.

The good one's are all taken, the unavailable one's are not. I mean, why else would he still be single? He seems consumed in his work.

That's just the way it goes.

Oh well.

Back to square one.
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Old 12th March 2007, 4:15 PM   #6
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The good one's are all taken, the unavailable one's are not.
well i asked if I could call you and you blew me off so your theory doesn't hold water
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Old 12th March 2007, 4:16 PM   #7
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I didn't give the go ahead for John to call him. He just did. We were joking about on Friday. I didn't think he'd do it, I underestimated him.

When he came in to talk with John, that's when John gave him my number.


He won't. I have to believe he's single for a reason. Like any other guy in my neck-of-the-woods.

The good one's are all taken, the unavailable one's are not. I mean, why else would he still be single? He seems consumed in his work.

That's just the way it goes.

Oh well.

Back to square one.
But I thought you said you took the number off his desk......

Don't jump to conclusions just yet Luv. See how things pan out, or I think that instead of over analyzing it like you are, you should just pick up the phone, call him, say hi and go from there.

If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out, but at least you had the confidence to give it a try.

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Old 12th March 2007, 4:40 PM   #8
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But I thought you said you took the number off his desk......
I decided against leaving my number that way. My girlfriend told me to do that.

Luckily, when I got back from lunch, I stole my number off John's desk. John just laughed and then told me that he had already called Barrett.

He said that Barrett was a goofy dude. He didn't understand why he feels compelled to come in to talk to him. He could have just called John back!

So..when he did come in, John told him my number. Barrett wrote it down.

Sorry to confuse you, Rid!
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Old 12th March 2007, 5:06 PM   #9
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You may get laid after all
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Old 12th March 2007, 5:44 PM   #10
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You may get laid after all
Whooohooo!!

It'd be about damn time! I got me some serious sexual frustration building up.

I only have two more rooms in my house to paint! After that...who knows what'll happen!

I'll be the only one on the block with a house painted in 6 different pastel colors.
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Old 12th March 2007, 5:46 PM   #11
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well i asked if I could call you and you blew me off so your theory doesn't hold water
Oh, you were serious?? jk!

Hey, I could be your virtual date. *wink* *wink*
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Old 12th March 2007, 7:25 PM   #12
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Oh, you were serious?? jk!
don't be silly! I'm just trying to get you motivated.
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Old 12th March 2007, 10:00 PM   #13
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I decided against leaving my number that way. My girlfriend told me to do that.

Luckily, when I got back from lunch, I stole my number off John's desk. John just laughed and then told me that he had already called Barrett.

He said that Barrett was a goofy dude. He didn't understand why he feels compelled to come in to talk to him. He could have just called John back!

So..when he did come in, John told him my number. Barrett wrote it down.

Sorry to confuse you, Rid!
Its cool.

Like I said before, instead of all these questions and all this analyzing, you should just say f*ck it and pick up the phone and call him. You are already thinking the worse about this, so what do you have to lose at this point?
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Old 12th March 2007, 10:05 PM   #14
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You guys are supposed to act on instinct, don't dwell on the issue or it's gonna bite you in the ass.
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Old 12th March 2007, 10:53 PM   #15
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The guy said he feels something, so that is a good sign. Think positively, and good thing will happen! Isn't that the BIG SECRET in life? Hehehe..
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