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He asked to talk to my coworker, John. He seems to be buddying up to him now.
I am going to lunch. If he comes in while I am gone, I left my phone number for John to give him.
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That is good news that he came back Luv, but I am not so sure if giving your number to someone else to give to him was the best idea, but hopefully I am wrong.
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That is good news that he came back Luv, but I am not so sure if giving your number to someone else to give to him was the best idea, but hopefully I am wrong.
Well, I didn't know that John had already called him. Barrett showed up to find out what John wanted. But, he could've just called. He didn't. He took the time to stop by.
Anyways, after finding that out, I snatched my phone number back from John.
Barret stopped by shortly after I got back from lunch. Him and John talked in the back.
Barrett told him that he did feel *something* going on between us. He got that feeling. So, John told him point blank, (cause he's super shy) that if he calls...I'd go out on a date with him.
Barrett told him that he's leaving for Chicago for business for a month. So he's unavailable till after that.
So, if he calls when he gets back...we'll have to wait and see.
At freakin' least the ball's in his court now. I feel good about that.
Well, I didn't know that John had already called him. Barrett showed up to find out what John wanted. But, he could've just called. He didn't. He took the time to stop by.
Anyways, after finding that out, I snatched my phone number back from John.
Barret stopped by shortly after I got back from lunch. Him and John talked in the back.
Barrett told him that he did feel *something* going on between us. He got that feeling. So, John told him point blank, (cause he's super shy) that if he calls...I'd go out on a date with him.
Barrett told him that he's leaving for Chicago for business for a month. So he's unavailable till after that.
So, if he calls when he gets back...we'll have to wait and see.
At freakin' least the ball's in his court now. I feel good about that.
I just think that it would be easier for you two to talk face to face instead of having a mediator.
How did he get your number to begin with if you took it off that guys desk?
I didn't give the go ahead for John to call him. He just did. We were joking about on Friday. I didn't think he'd do it, I underestimated him.
When he came in to talk with John, that's when John gave him my number.
He won't. I have to believe he's single for a reason. Like any other guy in my neck-of-the-woods.
The good one's are all taken, the unavailable one's are not. I mean, why else would he still be single? He seems consumed in his work.
That's just the way it goes.
Oh well.
Back to square one.
But I thought you said you took the number off his desk......
Don't jump to conclusions just yet Luv. See how things pan out, or I think that instead of over analyzing it like you are, you should just pick up the phone, call him, say hi and go from there.
If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out, but at least you had the confidence to give it a try.
I decided against leaving my number that way. My girlfriend told me to do that.
Luckily, when I got back from lunch, I stole my number off John's desk. John just laughed and then told me that he had already called Barrett.
He said that Barrett was a goofy dude. He didn't understand why he feels compelled to come in to talk to him. He could have just called John back!
So..when he did come in, John told him my number. Barrett wrote it down.
Sorry to confuse you, Rid!
Its cool.
Like I said before, instead of all these questions and all this analyzing, you should just say f*ck it and pick up the phone and call him. You are already thinking the worse about this, so what do you have to lose at this point?
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