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we have been together for almost 10 months now

so i found out they had been talking, phone and aim, a couple days ago and have talked to her about it. I told her it bugged me and that i should be the only man in her life. She said she would be really hesittant to go out with him 1 on 1. BUT today she told me they had coffee together in the morning, and he was telling her how he's going to cambodia to marry some girl for her money. He was also telling her about some condition he has with his ear, and how he has a heart condition but doesn't want to get it checked out.


i wasn't visibly angry, and i'm not. i'm just frustrated and don't know what to do about this. She told me she would be really hesitant about hanging out with him but today she went without even consulting me.


advice please?