[divineassault]

So, I think that in the journey to become well rounded human beings, we all hope to find a solid mate that provides everything we want in another person. What better way to insure we'll spend the rest of lives with a person than finding that perfect fit in all areas. But alas, after a certain amount of time with that supposed special someone, we feel like there might be greener pastures or better lays and experiences elsewhere. Depending on what you want out of life and love, this may or may not be a problem. But for me, it was. So, what I bring to you is my short abridge solution to staying true to one person. I'm not saying it'll work for everyone, but its worked for me and I think I was a little worse than the average guy when it came to womanizing. Without further ado, the basic points to finding someone you won't want to cheat on or leave for something flashy and pretty.

1) Be selective--Nothing had the power the shake me up more than getting attention from what I perceived as a more attractive female I previously thought I didn't have the power to attain. Sounds shallow, but its purely economical from a purely genetic standpoint. A bigger better deal. So hold out, get some self respect and improve your image (inner and outer) so that you find a lovely person that you picked, not the other way around.

2) Discretion is the better part of valor--Know your limits and what will send you overboard. For me, theres no way in hell I'd take a trip to Rio, for example, without my lady. Its just a bad idea for me at this point. I still don't know I am and am not capable of. And besides, this a good way to break rule 1. Nothing makes me, as a man, feel like he could do better than by being swooned (or swooning) tons of exotic women. Stay away from places that will tempt you...after all, you're not missing anything other than the one thing you tried to get away from when you got with the girl in the first place.

3) Make her happy--Women aren't hard to please, they're just different to please. Learn how to do it, and you will have unlocked a secret that is worth at least two wars in recorded history and billions of dollars in alimony, divorce settlements, child support, and flat out theft and destruction of property. And guess what, you'll be happier too. and that will motivate you to make each other happy.

4) and lastly, don't do **** unless...--unless you guys talk it over. There is some magical effect that joint decision making has in a relationship. Maybe its a shared struggle or whatever. Or maybe its actually making a new life together with the input of two people. Whatever it is, it works. Just do it.

Thats it...keep it real and spread love.