[cactus]

shes 16 and i am 17,We both work in this garden centre on sundays but she works in the cafe there. As she works in the cafe she's eiether busy in the kitchen or serving customers shes so busy she hasn't even time to have a break.I find making conversation with her quite hard as there is no appropriate time.I don't like the sound of asking for her number or asking her out in front of her collegues and espeically her mum that works with her in the cafe.We both know each other and say hi but i have no idea whether shes interested in me or not.

Her mum and mine work during the week in the cafe and know each other quite well my mate though about my mum giving my number to the girl i likes mum when they are working together during the week.But i know that will be very embarrasing for me and espeically her and it might seem like i am putting her under pressure to ring me.


This is by far the hardest girl situation i have come across before but i haven't really fancied a girl like this before i can't get her out of my head but i know i have to incase she isn't interested in me.

Please i need help and advice.

[alextop30]

I have been there. Well only thing that I might suggest is wait for your chance to talk to her after she is off of work - if you two end work at the same time you can try buying her a cup of coffee and getting a nice conversation started and after you are finished you can ask her for her phone number since you hardly have time to talk because she is so busy. I would suggest dont come out too strong that you like her but yet let her know that you are looking for that special thing in her. This way you will not get the brother comment but you will help her to fall in love with you again this is HELP because you cannot make anyone fall in love with you. But still that is beside the point if you want more time with her ask, that is the best way.