Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
Depends on what you're saying in your messages... Fess up.
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...and I feel like I'm naked in front of a crowd,
'cause these words are my diary screaming out loud,
and I know that you'll use them however you want to...
It is if you would consider it a breech of trust (and/or cheating) if the shoe were on the other foot and your girlfriend and her "ex" were doing the same exact thing.
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"It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.” ~ Mark Twain
Maybe not cheating per say, but very unscrupulous, no doubt. And frankly, it's quite dangerous. First you text message, then you are exchanging pictures, then you meeting for "innocent" coffee...etc.
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"She lies and says she's in love with him,
Can't find a better man"
-- Eddie Vedder of Pearl Jam
It isn't cheating if you two are single. It IS cheating if you are involved with someone else now...Imagine how your new girlfriend would feel if she found out what you were doing...OR better yet, how YOU would feel if she was flirting sexually online with her ex...
If there's interaction, yes, sending sexual text messages is cheating. Why would anyone want to do this anyways? If you're in a committed relationship with someone, why would you risk it to partake in this trash?
Former President J. Carter "Lusted in his heart" (imagination)..... a cheater.
Every man (or woman) who ever looked at a picture or read a book/letter leading to, or during masturbation... a cheater.
Everybody who ever had an online converstaion with anyone while being in any sort of "relationship" with a SO.... cheater.
Everybody who harbors erotic thoughts about another person while in any sort of "relationship".... cheater.
Everyone who has chatted up an attractive person while in any sort of "relationship" with another.. cheater.
Wrong folks. I been there, felt that. When your SPOUSE is penetrated by, or penetrates another, or brings to orgasm another... that's cheating. The rest is silly, questionable, or just plain old bad behavior.
Wrong folks. I been there, felt that. When your SPOUSE is penetrated by, or penetrates another, or brings to orgasm another... that's cheating. The rest is silly, questionable, or just plain old bad behavior.
So it is only considered cheating if you are married? And only then if sex happens? Yeah sure........
Wrong folks. I been there, felt that. When your SPOUSE is penetrated by, or penetrates another, or brings to orgasm another... that's cheating. The rest is silly, questionable, or just plain old bad behavior.
Let's pretend that your spouse loves to give hand-jobs every day to one or more lovers but stops just before the guy(s) makes it because she doesn't like the mess. There's no penetration or orgasm involved so this must not be cheating.
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