I met my girlfriend a few years ago and we were friends. A few months ago she approached me and wanted more. I have always wanted more with her too, but didnt want to lose our friendship in case it didnt work out. She is very stubborn and sometimes we dont agree and theres tension.

When we first started to date it was during a difficult time for me, I was going through a vert stressful period. I thought by getting together with her would get my mind off of it. I knew from the beginning it wasnt going to work out.

She demands a lot from me and if I dont give in she snubs me for days. I am really trying very hard to make the relationship work, but it seems that something is always coming up that 'she' wants. She wins the arguements and never appologizes to me for her cold actions.

I spend most of my time with her and on the weekends and have had to reassure her over and over that she is 'the one and only'. I have never done anything for her to not trust me. But she seems to have trust-issues.

I am going away for a week with my brother and sister for a vacation. This was planned before we started to date, so my girlfriend isnt coming.

I'm worried about what she may do, do you think she will cheat on me?

[milvushina]

I take it she's upset she's not coming despite the trip being planned before you were together?
I have no idea if she will cheat on you or not, but it probably doesn't matter since it is only a matter of time before you get sick of tolerating her behavior.

It's okay - I knew with my exH that it wasn't going to work out from the beginning. Sometimes people make really stupid romantic mistakes, even if otherwise they are a very smart person.

[littlepiggy1]

The way you make her sound, cheating on you might be a blessing!

I can sympathize, though. I had a g/f who got pissed off at me because I couldn't spend enough time with her during exam week. I had 4 exams in 8 days and *she* was pissed off?!?

Suffice to say, we are no longer together.