I've been in a relationship for about 4 yrs now. I was just wondering some things to spice up our life. It doesn't seem like he's turned on anymore. I've tried advances on him, dressing sexy, and foreplay. He says that just me turns him on, he doesn't need anything else ( then why doesn't he ever take me?). We have a 2yr old so it's not like it's whenever or wherever. Any ideas? How do I get him into foreplay again? He thinks kissing my neck and side 4-5 times is foreplay. Any suggestions? Thanks

add new locations and change the time. a weekend away can do wonders for a relationship.

I've been in a relationship for about 4 yrs now. I was just wondering some things to spice up our life. It doesn't seem like he's turned on anymore. I've tried advances on him, dressing sexy, and foreplay. He says that just me turns him on, he doesn't need anything else ( then why doesn't he ever take me?). We have a 2yr old so it's not like it's whenever or wherever. Any ideas? How do I get him into foreplay again? He thinks kissing my neck and side 4-5 times is foreplay. Any suggestions? Thanks