[Stunner]

My wonderful, simple guy took a couple of weeks to himself in October when trying to figure out what he wanted with us...analyzing things, as we should all do. When he came back from that little hiatus he was wonderfully open and told me everything he was thinking and feeling without any prodding from me....we decided then to move forward in the relationship and see each other more. Things have been great....

Over the holidays we suffered a couple of blizzards and didn't get to see each other hardly at all because it is so difficult to get a sitter during that time of year...besides the snow. Now, he's admitted he's making some decisions...I think regarding taking another step around our one year anniversary....so he's admittedly a little afraid, etc. So, I'm doing exactly what I did last time...giving him room, not hounding him or whining about how much I miss him. Hey, it worked out well for me last time.

Why do you guys do this? To center yourself and make decisions not caught up in the rosy pink cloud of being with the woman you care about? Because you don't trust your girl enough to verbalize fully your thoughts? Maybe because when you do talk about it you want to be articulate and clear?

ANY input into a simple, nice guy's head will do.

Thanks