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Old 28th December 2006, 1:26 PM   #1
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2006 was the worst year of my life.

Financial problems, job loss, and impending divorce. Does it get much worse?
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Old 28th December 2006, 1:33 PM   #2
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Let's hope not!! I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16, and it was the hardest thing i have had to go through. I never thought it would happen to me. I finally got my cycle after 33days and am done now waiting on the ovulation. Hope to start the new year with a another pregnancy that is healthy ! I was 9wks and it died at a gestation of 7wks . Said because of late ovualtion that it didn't make it. Something didn't come together genetically and couldn't progress and there fore it died . I already have a healthy 7 yr old daughter so we know we can have a baby just wasn't meant to be ! Looking foward to this yr being over this year too much heartache. Hopefully 2007 will bring us both a better year!!
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Old 28th December 2006, 1:35 PM   #3
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Financial problems, job loss, and impending divorce. Does it get much worse?
It COULD! You coulda had bad health or something like that.
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Old 28th December 2006, 1:36 PM   #4
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Let's hope not!! I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16, and it was the hardest thing i have had to go through. I never thought it would happen to me. I finally got my cycle after 33days and am done now waiting on the ovulation. Hope to start the new year with a another pregnancy that is healthy ! I was 9wks and it died at a gestation of 7wks . Said because of late ovualtion that it didn't make it. Something didn't come together genetically and couldn't progress and there fore it died . I already have a healthy 7 yr old daughter so we know we can have a baby just wasn't meant to be ! Looking foward to this yr being over this year too much heartache. Hopefully 2007 will bring us both a better year!!
I wish you both a better 2007!
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Old 28th December 2006, 1:43 PM   #5
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I wish you a better 2007. For me, it was pretty bad.

My mom died at the end of 2005 and my ex left me 2 weeks later. I've had the worse year of my business and stand a chance of losing it. It's ok, really because I have other options so I will be fine. I crashed on the racetrack twice (breaking my collar bone and getting a nasty concussion). I then lost my house and truck keys, then last week lost my wallet and this week found out my ex is engaged.

Yeah, 2006 has sucked but I am not going to let that get me down.

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it.

And I am sticking to that.
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Old 28th December 2006, 1:46 PM   #6
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I wish you a better 2007. For me, it was pretty bad.

My mom died at the end of 2005 and my ex left me 2 weeks later. I've had the worse year of my business and stand a chance of losing it. It's ok, really because I have other options so I will be fine. I crashed on the racetrack twice (breaking my collar bone and getting a nasty concussion). I then lost my house and truck keys, then last week lost my wallet and this week found out my ex is engaged.

Yeah, 2006 has sucked but I am not going to let that get me down.

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it.

And I am sticking to that.
I wish you a better year too Cali! OMG, yes now that sounds like a terrible year, but you know the saying, "what doesn't kill you..."

Glad you're optimistic about things. There really is a bright side. Really.
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Old 28th December 2006, 1:50 PM   #7
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I wish you a better year too Cali! OMG, yes now that sounds like a terrible year, but you know the saying, "what doesn't kill you..."

Glad you're optimistic about things. There really is a bright side. Really.
Thanks. The business stuff irks me because I did 250k in placements in 2005 and less than half of that this year. All because of the economy and clients that take forever to interview and then don't want to pay market rate for technology people.

What does not kill you will only make you stronger. I agree and this year was truly the year I grew up and became a bonafied man and left any semblence of boyhood behind.
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Old 28th December 2006, 3:03 PM   #8
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I wish you both a better 2007!
Thanks Buttafly! Wish me lots of baby dust too.
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Old 28th December 2006, 3:06 PM   #9
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I wish you a better 2007. For me, it was pretty bad.

My mom died at the end of 2005 and my ex left me 2 weeks later. I've had the worse year of my business and stand a chance of losing it. It's ok, really because I have other options so I will be fine. I crashed on the racetrack twice (breaking my collar bone and getting a nasty concussion). I then lost my house and truck keys, then last week lost my wallet and this week found out my ex is engaged.

Yeah, 2006 has sucked but I am not going to let that get me down.

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it.

And I am sticking to that.
Sorry to hear about your mom and exgf Cali! We both have suffered loss this yr. Hopefully we will have a better 2007.
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Old 28th December 2006, 3:23 PM   #10
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I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16,

I don't know much about miscarriages, but did you lose the baby in Nov or Dec? Nov 16th to Dec 16 is one month. Maybe you were meaning 2 weeks ago?

Anyway I hope you have a better year.
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Old 28th December 2006, 3:37 PM   #11
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Thanks Buttafly! Wish me lots of baby dust too.
OH YES! LOTS OF BABYDUST TO YOU SASSY!
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Old 28th December 2006, 3:38 PM   #12
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I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16,

I don't know much about miscarriages, but did you lose the baby in Nov or Dec? Nov 16th to Dec 16 is one month. Maybe you were meaning 2 weeks ago?

Anyway I hope you have a better year.
It has been 2mths as of December 16. November 16,06 is when i miscarried!!!
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Old 28th December 2006, 3:41 PM   #13
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OH YES! LOTS OF BABYDUST TO YOU SASSY!

Thanks Butta! I need lots of baby dust wishes hoping to conceive when i ovulate in Jan !
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It has been 2mths as of December 16. November 16,06 is when i miscarried!!!

You're saying you were 2 months along when you miscarried, ok gotcha.
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You're saying you were 2 months along when you miscarried, ok gotcha.

No I was 3mths pregnant when i miscarried on NOVEMBER 16TH.
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