[theplastickid]

Hi i am giving my girlfriend some time, she needs some space to be a bit free. I have done nothing wrong here, and shes knows it too, it is just how she feels which is fair enough. We are not going out anymore but she needs time i think. Girls... how long do you normally take to realise you ****ed up? 2 days? 2 weeks? a month?

[jusified]

sorry dude, but wen they do that its usually forever...until something happens to them that make them ran back. What is the details to your situation?

I guess sometimes girls just lose their feelings (maybe because there is someone else or maybe just because the relationship got comfortable)

I suggest you not think about it too much and try and move on. If you wait for her to come back it might never happen.

[Rooster_DAR]

she needs some space

You never want to hear these words, it's always bad news. All you can do is give her space, and make it your time to think about yourself.

[luvtoto]

Yea, bad. I have told BF's that before, and have heard it (years ago).

It's never a win-win situation.

If you do give her the space, she will be in control of the relationship and then lose respect for you.

If you don't give her the space she needs, then she will think you are smothering her.

Either way, I'd probably cut my losses and move on out of respect for myself.

But, that's just my advice here.