Anyway, when initiating NC, I just did it, having communicated I was on my way out....still wanted to give him the opportunity to stop. If he doesn't then I will have to act.
While writing him the email back, he wrote a couple of emails and was freaked out about who I have been talking to and totally freaked about the stalker thing...which proves that he is, major nerve hit there.
I am really done....and hope it ends here.....
Before he used to be able to suck me in....but now I really see the manipulation
Anyway, when initiating NC, I just did it, having communicated I was on my way out....still wanted to give him the opportunity to stop. If he doesn't then I will have to act.
While writing him the email back, he wrote a couple of emails and was freaked out about who I have been talking to and totally freaked about the stalker thing...which proves that he is, major nerve hit there.
I am really done....and hope it ends here.....
Before he used to be able to suck me in....but now I really see the manipulation
Please stick to it. His actions really have me a little worried.
Please stick to it. His actions really have me a little worried.
Before, wasn't too concerned, but you are right....you know there are many people people that thought a situation wasn't too harmful and then you show up at the scene (referring to your job, and the various calls you respond to). You see this stuff all of the time, and I know it, so am really taking heed....thanks BH
there is a woman i loved dearly and i made many mistakes. i believe in my heart that she has viewed my behaviours not as a concern but as someone that loves her and was trying to show her i had changed. i was told this was not the case and that this is all in my head and that she sees me as someone that might fit the stalker description.
there is nothing worse than knowing someone u love sees you that way and that hurt deeply and so i focused on getting better and i wanted to try again and proposed marriage. there was no reply so i must see that as she no longer loves me and sees me as a concern - so i will not cause further distress and let these notions of mine go. i promised myself to not repeat mistakes of the past in 2007 - and i will keep my word.
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