Jealousy!

babyboi · 21st November 2006, 4:06 PM

I need advice. I have been with my girl for nearly a year now and she gets along with boys alot better than girls. im just worried that she might cheat on me. She's cheated before and since we have been together she have been with someone else but we broke up the day before. Even though she says it not classed as cheating and that she would never cheat on me im not convinced. what do i do?

Mythical · 21st November 2006, 4:16 PM

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Originally Posted by babyboi

I need advice. I have been with my girl for nearly a year now and she gets along with boys alot better than girls. im just worried that she might cheat on me. She's cheated before and since we have been together she have been with someone else but we broke up the day before. Even though she says it not classed as cheating and that she would never cheat on me im not convinced. what do i do?

Hey Babyboi,

Well I don't really know if I can say too much, I mean lots of girls get a long better with guys (I do) I have way more guy friends than girls doesn't mean I would EVER cheat on my boy.

I have cheated in the past and learn't my lesson and NEVER EVER would do it again. Once it happens to you you would never do it again and when I was younger and stupid I guess I didn't realize that.

I can't say she won't cheat I don'tthink there is enough info to really say much.
But NOT once a cheater always a cheater
and having guy friends doesn't mean she would cheat either, of course there is more of a chnace because she is hanging out with guys but it deffiently doesn't mean she feels that way toward them

Hope things work out

Pyro · 21st November 2006, 4:30 PM

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Originally Posted by babyboi

I need advice. I have been with my girl for nearly a year now and she gets along with boys alot better than girls. im just worried that she might cheat on me. She's cheated before and since we have been together she have been with someone else but we broke up the day before. Even though she says it not classed as cheating and that she would never cheat on me im not convinced. what do i do?

Thats part of having trust in a relationship. I can imagine the stress you must have. I had to go through that once upon a time. If she is going to cheat, then you can't stop her, but if she has never given any indication that she is the cheating type than you should have noting to worry about. Have you met most or all of her guy friends? If she hasn't and seems to be avoiding that, then you might have to worry.

Bryanp · 21st November 2006, 9:36 PM

She had sex with a guy one day after she broke up with you? You know the chances are great that she was probably seeing him while she was still with you. With her track record I think you are really just asking for trouble.

babyboi · 23rd November 2006, 12:56 PM

Thanks for the advice but, even though she dont show signs that she is going to cheat the main thing that i am worried about is that she is always spending time with her ex boyfriend and he is constantly trying to make a move on her. ive said that i dont like her being with him alone but she doesn't listen. in fact shes out with him right now. after this morning i asked her if she wanted to go out, she said that she felt sick and didn't want to go out. she's been out with him since 2pm. what do i do?

Pyro · 23rd November 2006, 1:32 PM

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Originally Posted by babyboi

Thanks for the advice but, even though she dont show signs that she is going to cheat the main thing that i am worried about is that she is always spending time with her ex boyfriend and he is constantly trying to make a move on her. ive said that i dont like her being with him alone but she doesn't listen. in fact shes out with him right now. after this morning i asked her if she wanted to go out, she said that she felt sick and didn't want to go out. she's been out with him since 2pm. what do i do?

Dude, she is disrespecting you. Shes too sick to see you, but she is out with her ex?

She is playing you for a fool. Save some of your dignity and break-up with her.

Mythical · 23rd November 2006, 2:05 PM

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Originally Posted by babyboi

Thanks for the advice but, even though she dont show signs that she is going to cheat the main thing that i am worried about is that she is always spending time with her ex boyfriend and he is constantly trying to make a move on her. ive said that i dont like her being with him alone but she doesn't listen. in fact shes out with him right now. after this morning i asked her if she wanted to go out, she said that she felt sick and didn't want to go out. she's been out with him since 2pm. what do i do?

Yea you should defiently not put up with this...come on If I was doing this to my boy id know it was wrong.
Get out of there

babyboi · 24th November 2006, 5:31 AM

Thanks for the advice guys. i'll update u n let u no whats goin out.

Thanks

myshellsea · 24th November 2006, 6:38 AM

Yeah... it seams to me that she does this because she can! In other words she knows what she has and she knows you will always take her back! Maybe it's time for you to let her go- it can be hard but al least you dont have to worry about her cheating with her guy friends all the time.... which seems to be your issue..She's already showed you that she cannot be trusted!