[buzzie2]

I did something a couple of months ago that at the time I thought I did the right thing but now I'm regretting it. Well basically I told the man that I was in love with who I thought loved me that I wouldn't have an affair; or get involved with him sexually as long as he was married. He had been saying things to me like that I'd be a great mother and asked if I wanted kids; this it what made me think he wanted to be with me as he has never had kids and his wife already had her operation. I knew he was really miserable with her.When anyways I thought he would have respected my decision because he always said he liked how I had high morals. Well instead he cruelly told me he wanted nothing to do with me. He wouldnt return my calls or emails so I just gave up. I really thought he loved me what a joke- he obviously just wanted me for sex. I guess i'm not looking for advice- I just want you guys to tell me that I did the rigth thing. It's been about 5 months since it happened and I'm feeling really down.

[Bryanp]

You totally did the right thing. Why would you question your decision? First, the guy was married which tells you he is a player who does not respect his wedding vows. Second, he plays with your mind asking about having children with you knowing that you would melt at that comment. Thirdly, when you tell him that you were not into having an affair he drops you like a hot potato which proves he just wanted to get into your pants. He will not even talk to you now. What does that tell you?

Imagine if you did not have sex with him and then he dropped you like this later on. Imagine how stupid and used you would have felt. You made a huge mistake to begin with in the fact that he was married. Remember the old saying: If he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you. You have saved yourself a great deal of pain and hurt. Stick with single men. The bottom line is you did the right thing and his subsequent actions prove it. Do not question your decision.