[vamel]

I was dating my boyfriend for the last three years and about 3 weeks ago we broke up. He told me never to call him anymore and he hates me, now mind you I have only been good to this man. I nevr cheated on him, i treat him like my king. I am 27 and he is 23 about to be 24.

I have cried and tried to make this thing work. He left me once before and I let him back. I dont know what to do. Normally whan we have a dispute I am the one who always calls back or rekendle our flame but I am thinking maybe if I ignore him a bit he will come around. His reason for not wanting to be with me anymore is that I aggrevate him????? I think he wants to see other women.

He calls me all out of my name for no reason. I mean he is a trip but I love him and I miss him and Its hard not to call him. What should I do. I have been nothing but good to this man 100%. I just bought a new house and car and he gets mad at me and decide to dent my new car and spit on my house!! Am I crazy for still wanting to be with him. I am the total package and I would love to marry him one day(he aint a looker either) but how do I show him that he cant keep doing this ti me???

[Stevie840]

He said he hates you, he dented your car, he ain't a looker and it is suspected that he wants to see other women....

My question is, why do you want him back?! He sounds so unappreciative of you its just ridiculous.........my advice would be to ignore him completely and see what happens.

Either he will realise what he's missing and FINALLY start appreciating and respecting you or he won't. And if he doesn't you can go and find someone who will appreciate being treated like a king, and reciprocate your love.

[D-Lish]

No contact- that's the way to go.
He said and did some awful things to you. If you go after him, you'll look weak and only boost his ego.

He sounds like a jerk....

But, if you want him back~ make him respect you by disappearing out of his life for the time being. If he had no feelings for you at all, he wouldn't be doing and saying the things he is saying. Anger is still passion, and anger is often a temporary reaction. It will pass, and he will regret, then miss you. But you have to be absent for him to miss you... so do the No Contact. Make it appear as if you are moving on.

Do you want someone with all these obvious anger issues though?
He doesn't sound like he deserves you.

Take care,
D

[shawn_68]

Originally Posted by Stevie840

My question is, why do you want him back?! He sounds so unappreciative of you its just ridiculous...

I agree. Why in the world would you WANT this one???!!!