[37andConfused]

here's the scenario:

- husband has a higher sex drive than his wife (wife would like it 1x a week while husband would like it 3x a week)

- before wife met husband, she had a f***-buddy - he would call her up in the middle of the night and wake her up for phone sex. but in 13 years of marriage, wife has not had phone sex with husband.

- husband calls 900 numbers couple times a year when he feels like having phone sex, but wife is too tired and snoring away. he does NOT try to make contact with women online, etc. ONLY calls 900 numbers anonymously, gets off and moves on.


thoughts?

[JadeStar]

Why does the wife not want to have phone sex with her husband? Sounds like something he obvioulsy likes. I doubt its something he would need/want her to do all the time right? Maybe once in awhile? I remember when my husband and I were dating, we used to do the phone sex thing sometimes. Of course sex is better in person, but it was fun and different from time to time. We don't really do that much anymore but if asked I probably would. Why is the wife's sex drive so low? I have a feeling that if the wife had phone sex with her husband sometimes he might not feel the need to have phone sex with others. If he still does after the wife has phone sex with her husband then there's a deeper issue. JMO.

[alphamale]

no its not OK....a man should stay single if he wants to call 900 #s. I personally recommend men stay single, but if they do get married they should be faithful to wifey.

[whichwayisup]

no its not OK....a man should stay single if he wants to call 900 #s.

I agree. When someone is married, it's not cool to call those numbers and have phone sex.

Whatever happened to just good old masterbation and some fun filled thoughts/fantasy to help ya along? Or looking at playboy/hustler etc...

I suggest marriage counselling, more communication of your/her needs and really listen to eachother. Maybe there are reasons why she only wants sex once a week. Are you two fulfilling eachothers needs, out of the bedroom too?

[outofdarkness]

umm..noooo..