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Old 26th October 2006, 11:23 AM   #1
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I think I'm missing.

Who am I.

This all just jumped out at me in the past week or so. I'm not me! I don't feel like me, I don't act like me and something is missing. And it's gonna get fixed fast because I don't like how I'm feeling inside.

Got some blood tests done, I finally got an appt to see a Dr on Tuesday so hopefully by then I'll know 100% WTF is happening to me. My best guess is my B12 levels are dropping off and I need B12 shots. I recognize the symptoms...Just really hoping that is what it is and not something serious.

I hate this time of year, the weather changes, the change in the clocks so we lose an hour of light.

Maybe I should have posted this in the rant section again, not really looking for advice, unless some of you are feeling really BLAH right now too.

IN general, I just feel bored, not wanting to talk to anybody, see anybody or DO anything. As I said, this all just came on really fast - Less than 2 weeks ago I felt pretty good and was feeling social. Now all I wanna do is hibernate.

I just Tuesday to come so I can deal with whatever is wrong with me.
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Old 26th October 2006, 11:26 AM   #2
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IN general, I just feel bored, not wanting to talk to anybody, see anybody or DO anything.
For me, that's perfectly normal. Don't fight it. Eventually you'll develop a sense of humour, start talking to yourself...and occasionally laugh at your own jokes.

People are weird. You seem fairly likeable - are you part bear?? That might explain a lot.
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Old 26th October 2006, 11:31 AM   #3
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I feel like this often nowadays... Like i lost "me" somewhere...Everything is fine in life but I just feel like it all just sux and I wonder "is this all there is to it?" Anyways, like you I also am experiencing health issues too... My hand has been numb for 3 months... Doc did a brain MRI and found 5 benign lesions, but now they are testing me for multiple sclerosis. So big quandry over that too...
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Old 26th October 2006, 11:36 AM   #4
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My hand has been numb for 3 months
That might do wonders for my sex life.

But seriously, I'm really sorry that you are having these health problems. Hopefully there will be a resolution for you soon. It sure makes you think, and not take your health for granted.
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Old 26th October 2006, 11:48 AM   #5
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well, when one hand goes numb just switch sides and use the other one - that's why gawd gave us two!

frankly, i was posted in prison for i year and i did enuff wanking to last a lifetime...just the thought of my own hand reaching down towards the boyz makes me go turtle...

i think me body only accept a female touch for aty least the next 15 years anywayssss...lol
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Old 26th October 2006, 12:03 PM   #6
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Who am I.

This all just jumped out at me in the past week or so. I'm not me! I don't feel like me, I don't act like me and something is missing. And it's gonna get fixed fast because I don't like how I'm feeling inside.

Got some blood tests done, I finally got an appt to see a Dr on Tuesday so hopefully by then I'll know 100% WTF is happening to me. My best guess is my B12 levels are dropping off and I need B12 shots. I recognize the symptoms...Just really hoping that is what it is and not something serious.

I hate this time of year, the weather changes, the change in the clocks so we lose an hour of light.

Maybe I should have posted this in the rant section again, not really looking for advice, unless some of you are feeling really BLAH right now too.

IN general, I just feel bored, not wanting to talk to anybody, see anybody or DO anything. As I said, this all just came on really fast - Less than 2 weeks ago I felt pretty good and was feeling social. Now all I wanna do is hibernate.

I just Tuesday to come so I can deal with whatever is wrong with me.
UGH....I absolutely HATE this time of year. And I hate it more each year. Which is silly, nothing I can do about it, I know it's coming. But yeah, I get the same way, especially this year with everything I've gone through lately.

I hate the drive home from work in the dark. I put off getting gas until I'm about to run out, I hate taking the trash out, getting the mail.

I wish humans hibernated!

Hope everything goes ok with your tests!
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Old 26th October 2006, 12:12 PM   #7
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I feel like this often nowadays... Like i lost "me" somewhere...Everything is fine in life but I just feel like it all just sux and I wonder "is this all there is to it?" Anyways, like you I also am experiencing health issues too... My hand has been numb for 3 months... Doc did a brain MRI and found 5 benign lesions, but now they are testing me for multiple sclerosis. So big quandry over that too...
I hope you're going to be okay. My thoughts are with you.

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UGH....I absolutely HATE this time of year. And I hate it more each year. Which is silly, nothing I can do about it, I know it's coming. But yeah, I get the same way, especially this year with everything I've gone through lately.

I hate the drive home from work in the dark. I put off getting gas until I'm about to run out, I hate taking the trash out, getting the mail.

I wish humans hibernated!

Hope everything goes ok with your tests!
Thanks. I hope so too. Now I just have to try to my best to keep busy and distract myself so I don't worry to death!

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100% agreeing with you there! If you don't have your health, life can be really difficult.
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Old 26th October 2006, 8:40 PM   #8
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If I recall correctly you're in your 30s, right? If so, read up on perimenopause.

Of course see your doctor and get things checked out, but don't jump to the conclusion that you're in a bad way. It could just be dear old nature telling you that time is passing.

For the next while, pay close attention to how you feel at various stages of your cycle.
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Old 26th October 2006, 10:47 PM   #9
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well, when one hand goes numb just switch sides and use the other one - that's why gawd gave us two!

frankly, i was posted in prison for i year and i did enuff wanking to last a lifetime...just the thought of my own hand reaching down towards the boyz makes me go turtle...

i think me body only accept a female touch for aty least the next 15 years anywayssss...lol
Thanks for that reply, it helped alot. Gave me a !

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If I recall correctly you're in your 30s, right? If so, read up on perimenopause.

Of course see your doctor and get things checked out, but don't jump to the conclusion that you're in a bad way. It could just be dear old nature telling you that time is passing.

For the next while, pay close attention to how you feel at various stages of your cycle.
I am pretty sure it's the B12 deficency again, but I won't know for sure until the blood results come in and I see the Dr on Tuesday.

I highly doubt I'm perimenopause...
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Old 27th October 2006, 4:22 AM   #10
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WWIU, I doubt its perimenopause. You are too young for that.

I'm thinking its maybe something psychological....like a minor case of seasonal affective disorder. Maybe you see that its getting darker earlier, and it kind of effects your mood.

Have you had any recent stressful events in your life? Maybe this could be a reaction, albeit delayed, to that event.

Anyways, go to the doctor to rule out any changes in your body.

Get better WWIU! Keep us updated.
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Old 27th October 2006, 4:36 AM   #11
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Hope you feel better soon WWIU. Do let us know how you get on!!

I personally dislike this time of year too! I love the sun and summer months. The dark months are depressing at times. I think many people suffer mild SAD, we wind down and seem to be on more of a 'go slow' around this time of year.

The only reason I'm starting to like this time of year is the fact that I'm getting married this time next year!!
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Old 27th October 2006, 9:50 AM   #12
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I doubt its perimenopause. You are too young for that.
It starts in the 30s. Hence 'peri'.
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Old 27th October 2006, 1:25 PM   #13
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WWIU, I doubt its perimenopause. You are too young for that.

I'm thinking its maybe something psychological....like a minor case of seasonal affective disorder. Maybe you see that its getting darker earlier, and it kind of effects your mood.

Have you had any recent stressful events in your life? Maybe this could be a reaction, albeit delayed, to that event.

Anyways, go to the doctor to rule out any changes in your body.

Get better WWIU! Keep us updated.
My thoughts are there too, I'm TOO young for that.

Yup part of this is combo SAD and (more than likely) the B12 levels are off.

No recent stresses, just the usual stuff.

Thanks for your reply. Hope things are good with you!

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Hope you feel better soon WWIU. Do let us know how you get on!!

I personally dislike this time of year too! I love the sun and summer months. The dark months are depressing at times. I think many people suffer mild SAD, we wind down and seem to be on more of a 'go slow' around this time of year.

The only reason I'm starting to like this time of year is the fact that I'm getting married this time next year!!
Thanks, and I'll let you all know after my Dr appt on Tues.

Hey, great distraction, get married during the SAD months!
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It starts in the 30s. Hence 'peri'.
Well, maybe so, but I still doubt I'm in the Peri-time..
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Old 27th October 2006, 1:58 PM   #14
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Have you checked for pregnancy , WihichWay?
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Old 27th October 2006, 3:32 PM   #15
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LOL! I know I'm not pregnant seeing as I've not had sex since my last period.

See? Another symptom to know that something in me isn't right. I'm NOT horny. At all.
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