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Originally Posted by amaysngrace
Has anybody else ever felt this intensely over another person? ..........
Is this what it feels like when you've found your soul-mate?.....
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I started reading a book about soulmates. It is called "Soul Mates" by Thomas Moore.
Its rather deep and sort-of hard to understand at times.
I understand that having a soulmate is having a bond-connection with another person. Its a bond of emotions, logic, beliefs, personalities and there have been claims to spiritual connections.
A soulmate tends to be someone (can be more then one person) whom gives balance to things when your together. They have qualities and characteristics you lack and when together you make a good team complementing one another. (work well together)
A soulmate is a person(s) we call our best friend. There is a deep level of connecting.
NOW
As for myself. I believe that my best friend is a soulmate. She and I understand one another and we know what each other lacks and what each other has for strength. We are opposites in the way in which we support one another to help each other where the other lacks. We don't find jealousy because we see in the other what we lack. We are grateful that we have each other to support the other. Your senses are heightened also with each other. You can pick up on the slightest abnormality in the other. Meaning you can't hide anything from each other. You can (as they say) sense it.
Have I ever had a man I can claim as a soulmate--yes,, Michael.. He was my ultimate. I adored him. He complimented me almost like magic. We had balance when we were together. We worked well in everthing we did. I could always sense when something wasn't right with him. I was knew what troubled him without him saying anything to me. I was able to point out exactly the issue, who was involved and what caused it. (this use to scare him about me.)
When we broke up and he moved 2 states away. I was able to feel him. I could feel his feelings... I could feel his emotions. I knew what he was doing. I knew when he was stressing over his life. I knew when he was hurting or scared or confused..
It use to drive me crazy feeling him all the time.
When he reached out to me one day and we began to talk he started telling me things and I would finish his story and I told him I knew.
He brought up things that I never witnessed or heard from anyone and he confirmed them. He told me things and I told him things and we both discovered that I had a (spiritual) soulmate connection with him deeper then we both understood.
It bothered me so much that I prayed to be released from the connection. I stopped talking to him on the phone for a period of time. I attempted to force myself not to think about him or admit to the sensations I would get and he would call me out of desperation about what he was going through and I told him I knew..
I actually, had to go to a healing service and beg God to release me from the connection and I was prayed over.
Since thenI haven't been overwhelmed with those feelings.
Now I was just informed this weekend (as a matter of fact) that a guy can feel me.. He knows when I'm thinking about him. He can feel me. He said it use to bother him but he is learning to accept it.
He can feel me when I'm with someone else and thinking about him. He can feel it when I'm doing something I dont want to be doing. He knows.
I believe him..
He called last night to tell me about a Doe (deer) running into the side of a car yesterday in which he pulled off the side of the road and he noticed she was in heat. I came to his mind and he felt that there was a correlation with me. The Doe was in heat and ran into the side of the a car. I'm menstrating and I was with him Friday night. I entered his car. The Doe ran into that car and he felt that I was going to have a conflict.. (Odd yes, Weird yes, Cant it be explained away I'm sure someone could make a arguement). he called me to confirm his feelings at what I was doing at a specif time and guess what: His feelings where correct. I had a conflict last night at that specific time period; that was like me being that Doe crashing into the side of that car.
He is not a man to admit stuff like this. Its been overwhelming for him to feel these sensations and he's starting to share them with me. It's interesting---I do think about him intensely and a lot and I don't share this with him.
Yet, he knows... It stops him in his place at times where he can't function right. He is only now starting to tell me these things. I wonder if I'm his soulmate.. We have a unique connection that is powerful and can be overwhelming. It is confusing because we both fight it. It's not painful but disturbing at times because its a reality we both don't completely understand.
So I believe your instincts are telling you something.
But as for the feeling causing you pain. That doesn't seem possitive.
Nothing I've read states that a soulmate connection is painful but more of a hightened sense of knowing what the other needs or is feeling.
Could you be feeling anxiety that is so hightened that its causing you physical discomfort. You feel so excited that the tension from it is causing you symptoms that emotional distress would cause?...
I'm curious about soulmate connections also because I have had those experiences with few people.
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