I'm 16 go to high school. and there's this girl thats goes to my school. I like her a lot and think she likes me ( i hope lol). We hang out a lot and when i try to get close to her she kinda pushes me away most of the time. Her friends we were hanging out with say that she likes to play hard to get. but i don't know what to do with a girl like that. It's like being blind & walking into traffic. So my question, is there any way to tell if shes starting to get interested when shes playing hard to get so i can respond in the right way or do i just let her move at her own pace?

THANKS in advance...

[MikeC]

Hard to get females are real tricky. It almost looks as if they are blowing you off half of the time. It sure is damn confusing, I understand.

If a female is playing hard to get for a reason (in this case, possible interest in you), I would give her a taste of her own medicine (nothing harmful of course lol). By playing hard-ball, she is looking to see if you are interested. If you too play that game, it will most likely shock her.

I would say it is worth a shot.