[punk666]

hey, i started going out with this girl a few weeks ago. We have gone on a few dates but everytime we do we barley have anything to talk about. I feel comfortable around her, but i am scared of saying something stupid. Also, i am not sure when is the right time to kiss her. I tryed to make a move but it didn't work. All we do is hug. how can i get closer to her with out looking like an idiot.

Thanks...

[MikeC]

I'm going to give you some advice that I have picked up from personal experience (which is probably the only way anyone can really learn anything about relationships - living it!).

By saying you don't say much at all on the dates you have been on together, you are basically saying that you don't know too much about each other. I can tell you right now that trying to kiss a female without knowing her very well is probably a bad idea.

Do this. The next date you are on with her, get deep. Show interest in her. Ask her about herself and throw in some facts about yourself without being asked. She will see you being more open and will respond better to a future kiss.