[KaliHoku77]

I am so hurt by the way my relationship with my ex ended... We broke up almost two years ago, and after about a year after our break up, we were able to be friends again. So, over the past year, we've been friends. He would sometimes initiate conversations with me about our friendship saying that he considered me one of his best friends, and that I'd always be in his life. During this time, he was dating other people, and I can honestly say I'd gotten to a point where it didn't hurt to hear about it anymore.
So, long story short, he starts dating this girl. We'll call her NG (new girl). They had a really rough start to their relationship. During the first 4 months they dated, they broke up three times. Once, they remained broken up for 2 months. So, during this rocky time, he constantly turned to me for support, advice, etc. Being the dumb person I was, I was always there, as I am with all my friends. Then, literally, THE DAY they got back together, he emailed me and told me we couldn't be friends anymore because NG didn't want us to be friends.
I'm really hurt by this. For the last 4 months, I was the one who was pushing for her, giving him advice (which worked...) and then suddenly, I'm out of his life.
I can't stop thinking about how much I want them to break up. So, does anyone have any ideas on how to break them up? I know that I am acting very childish, and that these thoughts are really unhealthy. But I'm hurt... and I want them to BREAK UP!! So, give me ideas!

oh man, i totally understand. my girlfreind broke up with me for a few reasons but a big one being i was playing to many video games and not paying enough attention to her. i can't believe that she just didn't mention that! like how easy of a choice is that one? problem being she has a freind she has feelings for. and, it ended just because of something so....nevermind

[jimmy20013]

Calm down and chill. You guys were broken up for 2 years. I agree that he is acting like a jerk to use you and then just throw you out of his life but you can't be vengeful. It will only hurt you in the end.

Also, he will reap what he sows.

Originally Posted by jimmy20013

Calm down and chill. You guys were broken up for 2 years. I agree that he is acting like a jerk to use you and then just throw you out of his life but you can't be vengeful. It will only hurt you in the end.

Also, he will reap what he sows.

I know... And I know I just want this out of spite. I know I'm acting like the little kid on the playground who punches the kid who takes his ball. It's just been so hard because we went from talking on the phone every day and hanging out a few times a week, to nothing.
I don't know how to stop wanting him to hurt as much as I do.

[JosiePosie]

Like the other poster said, once that relationship falls apart, he will be knocking on your door again. When that happens, you should question if you want to be friends with someone who can disregard your relationship at the whim of another. You deserve more than that. I would certainly think twice. Good luck.