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:( I cheated on my boyfriend how do I get his trust back
Hi! This is my first time writting on this. I was at a party 2 weekends ago and got completly trashed. I ended up cheating on my boyfriend with two other guys. My boyfriend read my cell phone when i was in the shower two days later and found out. I have been trying to talk to him I love him to death and have no idea why I cheated on him. He says that if i find away to get his trust back then he will consider giving me another chance. How can I work on getting his trust back?
Hi! This is my first time writting on this. I was at a party 2 weekends ago and got completly trashed. I ended up cheating on my boyfriend with two other guys. My boyfriend read my cell phone when i was in the shower two days later and found out. I have been trying to talk to him I love him to death and have no idea why I cheated on him. He says that if i find away to get his trust back then he will consider giving me another chance. How can I work on getting his trust back?
He will be the one to decide that question. Time is what will help with that. If you really do want to gain his trust back, it will be a long and winding road. First and foremost, don't cheat again and you will have to be patient with his insecurity toward you.
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Hi,
I know you must be feeling super ****ty right now.
I have done things like that in the past (not with my current boyfriend) but I know it is very hard when you are drunk sometimes and things just happen.
If you truely really care about him and want to continue to be with him, you have to prove to him that it will never happen again and it can't happen again!
It is defiently going to be very hard for him to trust you, im sure everytime you go out, or are drinking he is going to get defensive and make comments, not rust you etc. Bt as much as you want it to go away ASAP you have to understand how you would feel if you were in his position.
Be there for him and prove to him that you care and will never do it again.
If you are the type that can't control yourself when your drinking maybe you have to stop when your not with him. I was the exact same way....good luck...it will take time
I am not sure if I read this correctly but are you saying that you had sex with two other guys at a party? If so then you need to get tested for STD's. I think it would be very difficult for your boyfriend to overcome this if this is what you said. The fact that you did not tell him and he had to find out himself says a great deal. In addition, you said you had no idea why you cheated. Why does that tell you? What would you say if your boyfriend said he cheated on you with two other women at a party but he does not why he did it? I think most people would walk away if their boyfriend or girlfriend did this to them. How disresectful and humiliating to your boyfriend.
You know what this is really true. I totally agree with Bryan and well I know now (I was a little imamture before) but I would ave my b/f /g/fin second if this happened. And yes you should go get tested....he could wake up with a nasty desease and it was all your fault.I can defiently say ive never slept with two ppl in 1 night not even in 2 months!!!
I know it is very hard when you are drunk sometimes and things just happen.
I've had to say this in the past but alcohol doesn't make it so "things just happen." It's not like you get drunk and a demon possesses your body and makes you have random threesomes. It just lowers your inhibition and makes you do something you wanted to do to begin with but was afraid to because of the consequences.
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"A fool knows no fear. A hero shows no fear."
there is no way you can show him that you will never do that again in a day because that takes time. however, if there is something he dislikes about you, like you go out too often or get drunk all the time, maybe you could cut back on that for a while to show how much he means to you and how much you don't want that to ever happen again. what you did was pretty bad and i don't think he should take you back, but if hes willing, then you need to show him that you are going to change up your style to make sure that never happens again
you have seriously done him wrong...if it was with one thas bad but damn...2...u ****ed up chica...i suggest you ****ing sit bac and actually try to picture what you would do if he had done that to you...
dumb bitch...i ****ing hate ppl like you...and you don't love him you nasty slut...if you did then you wouldn't have done that **** in the first place..
..a drunk woman does and says what a sober woman wants to do and thinks...so **** you...he deserves better than a slut who gets trashed and have a 3some....
i should market a new product, "the clamp" its kinda like the club, except it keeps a chicks legs closed, and only her bf knows the combo, this way she cant go banging 2 guys at a party drunk then whining when her bf doesnt trust her and dumps her, seriously. almost as bad as thouse douchebags who preach that "i wont tell my s/o i cheated cuz i dont wanna hurt them"
hell i hope it was a 3some, cuz the alternative is two separate incidents on cheating on the same night, which is just even more sad
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:( I cheated on my boyfriend how do I get his trust back
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