MM trying to get caught??

Can'tGiveUp · 18th October 2006, 8:18 PM

Just curious whether anyone else has felt like their MM is taking stupid risks in an attempt to get caught.

My MM seems to have a 'death wish' right now. His W is very suspicious and has accused him of having an A. Yet he seems to not be too concerned. I am trying to do things to lessen the risk of us being caught and he doesn't seem to want to change anything - or will - but very minimally. Some of my suggestions have been completely turned down.

His W has left him before (not because of an A on his part), and I wonder if he thinks this will make her leave again.

Any thoughts??

pricillia · 18th October 2006, 8:25 PM

ugh...

The MM it is always about him and his needs, I have had just about enough of my situation...

We make it so easy for them, to do what they are doing, all they need is a willing participant and they have it made... let him get caught

BenThereDunThat · 18th October 2006, 8:46 PM

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Originally Posted by pricillia

ugh...

The MM it is always about him and his needs, I have had just about enough of my situation...

We make it so easy for them, to do what they are doing, all they need is a willing participant and they have it made... let him get caught

Too true. And I agree -- Ugh. Why are you so concerned if he gets caught or not? If he wants to be so stupid, let him. Just make sure you're covered as far as him trying to blame you when he does get caught.

Forget that. They do think that it is all about them.

Enough already.

stillhere · 18th October 2006, 8:50 PM

Yes, i have noticed this behavior before.

I know he doesn't want to get caught, but it just seems like the risks are unbelievably high. We steal kisses at work, daily. Some days he does other things, that we would not be able to pull away fast enough where if someone walked in the room, there would not be a good explanation as to why his hand was down my pants!!

One day, he actually wanted to have sex at work, during work, with everyone very much there. If we had, the chances of us getting caught were about 99.99%!!!

Where we go and where we meet up, there is no possible explanation as to why i am in that area. All it takes is one person to see me, and someone will figure it out.

It bothers everyone at work when they don't know who i'm sleeping with, so they all try to figure it out. Someday, someday!!!!

confused93 · 19th October 2006, 9:16 AM

Sounds to me like he enjoys the excitement of almost getting caught. I often wonder if that's why we married people have affairs sometimes.