I need some advice on how to get my husbands attention. We have been kind of seperated. Well thats what I call it but he doesent becasue he comes home everyday he mostly does not sleep here. I have not had sex with him for 3 weeks now. When he does come home the kids are around and we dont have quality time so that I can show him how I feel. He makes me wonder if my sex is not good enough for him becasue he is not getting it from me. I need to get his attention and I'm not sure how. I can never count on him to come home at a certain time so its hard to plan anything with him. I need help.
What do you mean he doesn't sleep there? Does he work third shift and isn't there when you are?
The best thing to do is to communicate with him. Tell him how you feel. Let him know that you need/want his attention, and that you're not happy with not having sex with with him or spending time together. Communication is the key.
__________________
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.
Linear Mode
