The girls who were bitches 20 yrs ago are now bitter catherders
I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s. I avoided them then, I had nice awesome girlfriends. Those women, however, are now all married and taken. I'm faced with the rotten leftovers I rejected back then, and they are the typical bitter entitled types you see on Match and Craigslist. I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women. I should just give up shouldn't I? The divorce was necessary, but I certainly don't feel like it has allowed me to make a new start. My ex wife (who isn't an awful person) is already dating someone, and he seems okay.
I recently ran in to a high school friend . She was a hottie back then, perfect smokin body, red hair, creamy skin. But she was a bitch to most people. Really stuck up and uptight. A real turn off to me. I had many chances to hook up with her back in the day, but I could never get over how uptight she was. She also dressed funny, always wearing professional dress, even to a movie or a ball game.
So I get a call from her to grab some dinner and catch up. Well she is still bitchy, uptight, and stuck up to most people, the problem is she aint so smokin anymore. She looked horrible. No more smokin body, looked like gravity was pretty cruel to her. Worst part was she wanted to hook up
No way. Now shes nothing more than a pathetic single 35 year old woman with a 40 year old body and a bitches attitude.
Last edited by Picking_thru_Garbage; 27th September 2006 at 5:03 PM.
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Coming to this site and saying the stuff you said is pretty rotten if you ask me. Many of us here are somewhat hurt/bitter as a result of what's happened to us but to make such ( rude, vulgar, Childish) wide sweeping comments about women in general really doesn't require a reply but I felt the need today, you reminded me of just how some people are plain mean and others not.... MAybe after you calm yourself down try to figure out where you are in that....
I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s.
Your environment must be pretty limited. Move away! One mile or two would probably do. Unless you live in a very unfortunate or deserted area, or in a big bad part of the town.
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I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women.
Older women are much more interesting!
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I should just give up shouldn't I?
No. You should just get to know new people - it sounds like you haven't dated outside your high school circle of acquaintances.
I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s. I avoided them then, I had nice awesome girlfriends. Those women, however, are now all married and taken. I'm faced with the rotten leftovers I rejected back then, and they are the typical bitter entitled types you see on Match and Craigslist. I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women. I should just give up shouldn't I? The divorce was necessary, but I certainly don't feel like it has allowed me to make a new start. My ex wife (who isn't an awful person) is already dating someone, and he seems okay.
I'm 38 and recently single again. The only "availble" women are the ones who were miserable, lying, cheating cunts in their teens and 20s. I avoided them then, I had nice awesome girlfriends. Those women, however, are now all married and taken. I'm faced with the rotten leftovers I rejected back then, and they are the typical bitter entitled types you see on Match and Craigslist. I'm not deluded enough to think I can get 25 yr old women. I should just give up shouldn't I? The divorce was necessary, but I certainly don't feel like it has allowed me to make a new start. My ex wife (who isn't an awful person) is already dating someone, and he seems okay.
Sh*t.
Don't be in such a rush...and don't keep up with your ex wife's social life, that's her business. Go out and have fun. Enjoy being by yourself and doing things alone. I unconditionally guarantee that when you least expect it a very nice lady will come into your life...the RIGHT person for you. Now, don't expect she won't have a little bitch in her...they all do and that's necessary. You would not like a 100 percent, pure, sugarsweet partner...take my word for it!
You just to work on getting your game together. Good women ~ Hot ones ~ get dumped, divorced, widowed everyday for any number of reasons. Do you think Steve Irwins widow planned on being single at this point in her life?
With that said, good women are like finding a good job. Granted the best one's are already taken, the people that have them have had them for a good while, are planning on hanging on to them and you're probally are goig to have to fight them to get them away from them. But, they're out there. And, they're looking for a good man.
If you're just getting into it for sex, and looking for a trophy, you're getting into it for all the wrong reasons.
You need to re-phrase the question: Ask not what they've got to offer you, but what you've got to offer them. That's a two way street by the way.
With your perspective and attitude ~ you're probally driving them away before you even open your mouth. Your body language probally projects your anger, bitterness, and attitude outwardly.
You've been out of the game for awhile, and if you're like most men, (such as yours turly) you never were that on top of your game to begin with. Most men marry the first gal that comes along that pays them any attention, and they're not sure of how they got her and when they go through a divorce or separation, they don't know how to go about repeating the process.
Goggle David DeAngleo and "Double Your Dating" and check out his programs. Also, Carlos Xuma, and "Secrets Of the Alpha Male"
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You probably managed to offend the majority of female readers here.
You mentioned you are recently single again? You might want to give people on here a little background...why do you think this happen.. and why did it actually happen?
Also..your obvious bitterness can be felt in pretty much everthing you wrote...except when you mentioned your ex-wife... Well... that is how I have seen it.
Have you taken the time to figure out what happened with your marriage? Have you read any books or been to any counselling?? Stuff like this is good to know.
Finally... try and watch the use of the "C" word... I don't know any lady who puts up with its use.
Thats all I can think of...so far...keep posting...but calm yourself down.
ilmw
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