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if he's the advancer type he will clearly show you... but if he's the shy type (like me) than i surely know that stuff for example:
If he is shy you will probably see him in a lot of random places , he's going to look at you and BANG after a few moments hes looking the other way... and the dead giveaway if a shy guy likes you is: When he talks to you he's going to blush red
if he's the advancer type he will clearly show you... but if he's the shy type (like me) than i surely know that stuff for example:
If he is shy you will probably see him in a lot of random places , he's going to look at you and BANG after a few moments hes looking the other way... and the dead giveaway if a shy guy likes you is: When he talks to you he's going to blush red
I've never heard of the blushing red part. I know that I get shy around girls I like and talk to, but I've never noticed my face getting red or anything. Maybe I should analyze myself to see if I ever do.
i am blushing because i commented on a post about blushing
there is one other kinda guy that u have left out - the shyadvancer! lol
that's me i think. i sometimes blush over the silliest things - like when some surprises me, sneaks up from behind, hugs me and tells me how much they appreciate me.
and i do the opposite when
someone compliments me on an achivement [like writing an essay] - i get embarassed!
How can you tell if a guy really likes you, and not just after one thing?
Are you talking before or after you are dating?
Signs a guy really likes you: he enjoys spending time with you and talking, even if he isn't getting anything physical out of it. He likes your company.
He should also be making an effort to get to you. what i mean is you shouldn't be the one who's always coming after him. if he likes you he will want to see you and talk to you
Signs a guy really likes you: he enjoys spending time with you and talking, even if he isn't getting anything physical out of it. He likes your company.
He should also be making an effort to get to you. what i mean is you shouldn't be the one who's always coming after him. if he likes you he will want to see you and talk to you
I agree with Ted. The signs probably vary, based upon the age-group you're referring to, but there are some universal things that you can use to determine this. I think that men and women are very similar in this area - if you like a guy, what do you do? Probably try to be around him a lot, get to know a lot about him, laugh at his jokes, etc. When a guy likes a girl, it's almost the same thing....depending upon his maturity, he will either be shy (which has already been discussed) or he will be more direct. If a guy is always making you laugh, is around the places you're at a lot, makes a lot of eye contact with you, always asks about how you're doing, etc. I would say that it's probably a pretty good bet he's interested. Now, if you want to know how to take this further, read the post about picking up people in public LOL
It depends on what you mean by really like you. If you mean if he's falling for you, then here's a good indicator... check out his eyes.
Look at his pupils. Compare how big his pupils are when looking at and talking to you to how they look when he's not looking at you. If his pupils are dialated, that is a pretty sure sign he's really into you.
Like others said, if he's the shy type then he kind of avoids staring straight into your eyes. That can also be a sign if you look at him and his eyes kind of dance around you and then he nervously looks down or something, that's normally a sign that he's into you, especially if he also looks a little red in the face or neck.
Look at his pupils. Compare how big his pupils are when looking at and talking to you to how they look when he's not looking at you. If his pupils are dialated, that is a pretty sure sign he's really into you.
Does that pupil thing really work? I don't want to be like "hold still I need to see something." I can never tell.
That pupil thing is pretty hard to read. Say a guys pupils are moderatly big when talking to you. When he looks away you can't even exactly see them. How do you know if they are really bigger or smaller? It is VERY hard to tell in my opinion. Also there are other factors that can interfere with this, sunlight, tiredness, heroin..
Shy people's pupils tend to be big all the time. That's because they get bigger when you are nervous and shy people tend to be nervous in social situations full stop - no matter who they are talking to. Same with blushing.
I just go by gut feeling. Usually guy that likes me will check me out repeadetly (keep looking me up and down). He will also try to be around me more and just generally pay me lots of attention - even at the expense of ignoring other people. Also there is this look that guy gives you, kind of lowers his eyelids and looks at you through his eyelashes, I have learned to recognize this look well.
But those can all be the signs that he is after one thing only too. Well, in my experience they are ALL after one thing initially, they only start to really like you when they get to know you better.
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What are the signs a guy REALLY likes you?
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