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Old 7th November 2009, 3:21 PM   #1
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harder to cope over weekend?

does anone else find it harder to cop over weekend than anyother time in the week?

i work every other weekend nights and days (this weekend days) so on sat night im useualy sat in on my own cant even go out with friends as im up at 5.30am

just makes me think about her and wounder what she is upto and who with etc

so tonight im doing somthing boreing but keep me busy,sorting through all my paperwork etc lol!
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Old 7th November 2009, 3:24 PM   #2
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I'm lucky enough to have to work over night on Friday and Saturday. I'm sure it'd be pretty tough if I didn't have that though.
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Old 7th November 2009, 3:29 PM   #3
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does anone else find it harder to cop over weekend than anyother time in the week?

i work every other weekend nights and days (this weekend days) so on sat night im useualy sat in on my own cant even go out with friends as im up at 5.30am

just makes me think about her and wounder what she is upto and who with etc

so tonight im doing somthing boreing but keep me busy,sorting through all my paperwork etc lol!
yep to much time to think but here is a suggestion instead of doing something boring to keep you busy try something exciting to keep you busy( or at least fun) How about a night run through a questionable neighborhood? If not that teach yourself to cook a really good meal that will help you close the deal the next time you have a chick over?
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Old 7th November 2009, 3:36 PM   #4
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Yes I dread the weekend. Absolutely dread it. I stay busy all week but jeez. And now that drinking is out the window I am just as miserable since everyone is at the bar. I'm gonna make it aredbox night and sit at home alone in the dark cause that's how I feel.
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Old 7th November 2009, 4:22 PM   #5
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I have never heard of that expression...is that like the old Police song "Roxanne you don't have to put out the red light tonight"

I hope not, I suspect your not THAT lonely yet. Seriously, staying away form the alcohol is a very helpful. Remember you may be by yourself tonight but your not alone, all of your friends (and me too) from the love shack lonely hearts club is right there with you.

Suggestion try reading a self help book, I find that they have not really help me but the act of doing so makes me feel like I am doing something positive and that alone in helpful...if that made any sense. And it burns up some good old self pitty time.
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Old 7th November 2009, 4:26 PM   #6
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I have never heard of that expression...is that like the old Police song "Roxanne you don't have to put out the red light tonight"

I hope not, I suspect your not THAT lonely yet. Seriously, staying away form the alcohol is a very helpful. Remember you may be by yourself tonight but your not alone, all of your friends (and me too) from the love shack lonely hearts club is right there with you.

Suggestion try reading a self help book, I find that they have not really help me but the act of doing so makes me feel like I am doing something positive and that alone in helpful...if that made any sense. And it burns up some good old self pitty time.


A redbox is a big red box that dispenses movies for a dollar a day.
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Old 7th November 2009, 4:47 PM   #7
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A redbox is a big red box that dispenses movies for a dollar a day.
ooops, then I highly suggest skip "The Breakup" and suggest Amelie, then again maybe too romantic. How about Flight Club? That final scene where the world outside is blowning up and falling down, Helena Bonham Carter reaches to Ed Norton, who's half way lost his mind, and grabs his hand and says "Everything is going to be ok" a perfect analogy for us all.

Everything is going to be ok.
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Old 7th November 2009, 8:29 PM   #8
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I have never heard of that expression...is that like the old Police song "Roxanne you don't have to put out the red light tonight"

I hope not, I suspect your not THAT lonely yet.
Oops, I'm threadjacking now but I feel I have to point out: GC, the lyric is 'you don't have to put ON the red light' (the one that advertises her availability for cash).

Silly old Sting was trying to be kind and take care of her. Not encourage her to whore eternally.

Sorry, everyone! x
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Old 7th November 2009, 8:34 PM   #9
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grr i cant sleep lay here in this massive bed wishing she was still in the otherside wrapped up in my arms.....where as she could be/will be out with anyone doing anything right now driving me insane
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