[The Way I Am]

Originally Posted by canadaguy98

Interesting tidbit is that she said that a lot of people have suggested to her that she should go to counselling or "talk to someone".

I think I'm going to add this to my list for "not just a red flag but a dealbreaker".

How are you not seeing the pattern here? You're the common factor. You're attracting these women. Then once you see the huge red flags, you ignore them and soldier on. (And there were probably smaller ones that you ignored prior to the big ones.)

It's been 12 days since you first posted about this. If you had stopped seeing her when it first became clear she was a nutter, you might already have had a few dates with someone new by now. You stayed with her even after she made it clear that the lives of your animals are insignificant compared to her every little whim. That's not just a red flag. It's a little scary. I hate comparing anyone to this movie, because I think usually it's a gross exaggeration, but it does tend to send my mind toward "Fatal Attraction".

I just don't understand why you're putting up with this. I repeat my earlier advice that you need to figure that out. (Maybe through counseling.)