[steammachine]

I don't have any advice.

All I wanted to say is that I have the exact same problem, however I'm the boyfriend in this relationship.

I know just what you are feeling right now. In fact, the reason I'm on this forum right now is that I was also trying to find a way to change and not think the thoughts I think.

The thing is, my girlfriend has NO idea I think these thoughts. We somehow managed to not add each other on facebook for the first 7 months of the relationship, then the inevitable happened. As soon as we were friends on facebook I started to read every single thing I could on her wall. I was reading completely harmless wall posts from male friends of hers and the jealously just grew. It was crazy.

The worst part is knowing that these thoughts are completely irrantional, yet I still get them, and they will not diaspear.

Let me know if you find a way to deal with these thoughts. Because one day i'm just going to crack and tell her what i'm thinking and shes going to freak out. hahahaha