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Originally Posted by LonelyTiger
This is great news! I 'hit' the 'don't want him back' stage myself last week. Don't know where it came from - just out of the blue. I suspect there will be days when I'll 'wobble' (that old rollercoaster again - God what a ride that is!!!) but, for me anyway, it feels like the first solid stage on the road to recovery.
Good to hear you're heading in the right direction.
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Good for you LT. Now, if your H or my W come crawling back - we will be in control, not them. If they don't - then we are moving ourselves to a MUCH better place. Stay strong. If they do come back you have to be careful. If you did want to explore reconciliation, saying the wrong thing could make them run again due to pride or guilt or similar. If you don't you get to say "sorry, too late...". I would do this in a dignified manner, but some will do it with a F*ck You style.
Remember what "2.50 gallon" said - the BS almost always trades up and the cheating spouse almost always trades down.
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