Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
The guy is trying for an easy hook up. You are putting too much credit into his words. People who go after their life long friends SO do not think in the future, they think in the present. He is looking for action. You need to learn that men who listen while you are down really want to hook up with you. If your bf is that bad and you guys are always breaking up you should end it for good but not for the friend. Get rid of both of them. Lastly tell your BF about his "friend".
Start clean and work on yourself before you put yourself in a horrible mess
I disagree partly with the bold quote. I was friends with this guy once, (we met on holiday). Something tragic happened, I was so down, he was there for me, listened to me, we never hooked up. He said he wanted to, but had too much respect for me. It's entirely possible he's listening because he cares, course, it's also possible he's not.
I disagree partly with the bold quote. I was friends with this guy once, (we met on holiday). Something tragic happened, I was so down, he was there for me, listened to me, we never hooked up. He said he wanted to, but had too much respect for me. It's entirely possible he's listening because he cares, course, it's also possible he's not.
Okay, NO. NO. and NO. He did want to screw you. He only told you he didn't want to to seem more of a sweetheart to you, bettering his chances of YOU wanting to **** HIM. Come on........ *face in palm*
Okay, NO. NO. and NO. He did want to screw you. He only told you he didn't want to to seem more of a sweetheart to you, bettering his chances of YOU wanting to **** HIM. Come on........ *face in palm*
LOL..."face in palm"....<sigh> games people play, eh?
To be fair to him, he had plenty of opportunity, I certainly made it clear I wanted to and he still didn't. My point is, that although he wanted to, he didn't. He listened because he cared, looked after me because he cared. It's a cynical world when a man cannot care for a woman and listen to a woman when in need without wanting to screw her. No offence. He made his position and feelings on me clear, but he never breached it. He listened all the time. I'm not saying it's commonplace, it's not, most men are just there for what they can get, but not all. And I'm not going to be persuaded otherwise, there are decent men out there.
OP, I answered your multiple post on this topic on OW/OM. As Carhill noted, you need a big whoa! on the whole situation. Way too much drama, for way too long.
I'm not sure if you are trying to woo the friend away from your BF since you have felt so left out of their friendship and been so jealous of the friend, but at the end of the day, you are going to be without both of them.
Harmful, If this guy is such a straight up sort, why hasn't he told his "friend", that he is interested in the "friends", GF.? BTW if you were such a good person, why haven't YOU told your BF, the truth?
Harmful, If this guy is such a straight up sort, why hasn't he told his "friend", that he is interested in the "friends", GF.? BTW if you were such a good person, why haven't YOU told your BF, the truth?
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