It's funny, broken. I envy those of you who still have contact with your exes. Everytime someone gets a letter or a card or a text message, I wonder what I did that makes her not even speak to me anymore. She had to leave me AND erase me completely from her life, as if I don't exist or deserve a passing thought, or a "how are you doing". I know you all say it screws with your mind...but it's just amazingly cruel to be completely left behind. I don't get to see any indication of regret or sadness...
Anyway, I'm not in everyone else's shoes, so I can't really compare situations. I guess it just sucks either way.
Sorry that this is not a helpful post. Probably belongs on my own thread. I guess I just needed to vent.
Take it from me SHB look at my threads of late, sometimes that little crumb of contact hurts a lot more then nothing at all.
TOJAZ
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Ladies and Gentlemen, take my advice. Pull down your pants and slide on the ice! -Dr.Sydney Friedman
I would absolutely prefer no contact with my husband but cannot do that because of our daughter. But you can bet that if that were actually the case I would be wishing we did have a child so that I would still get to see him!!!
BH...I AM JEALOUS!!! how did you potty train the little man? PM me LOL. I want to get my baby out of the diapers too. On that note you know that you have some major mommy skills...you didn't need the ex...hope your letter has given you some peace. I know that I have been thinking lots more about writing letters to J...I have been so bad about writing in my Journal to my son...gotta get back to that.
You rock girl!!!
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...I AM JEALOUS!!! how did you potty train the little man? 
. On that note you know that you have some major mommy skills...you didn't need the ex...hope your letter has given you some peace. I know that I have been thinking lots more about writing letters to J...I have been so bad about writing in my Journal to my son...gotta get back to that.
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