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Old 7th November 2009, 8:52 PM   #1
lilbelle
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Can I just add something?

Even us blokes the non-emotional things that we are have feelings and the less sensitive we are the more we want to protect them.

So the best way for a guy to do that is to imply that he never wants marriage etc. If he says that hen he has already thought about it, and also actions speak louder than words.

If he is just as affectionate an still wants to spend time with you after sex then he has strong feelings for you and is likely to committ. No matter what is said.
perhaps he is looking for some secuity from you!
please elaborate.... ex always wanted to hang, sometimes he got mad that i didn't just want to cuddle and would initiate sex. also, he said several times he wanted to take care of me.... isn't that a sign he had thought of commitment with me? i just don't understand.
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