[indie22]

Okay, really flirty guys are so confusing to me. I am not very experienced when it comes to dating/opposite sex/etc., so how do I get this guy to stop flirting with me? Its not a bad thing its just that I like him and a guy with this type of personality gives me mixed signals, its annoying.
Thanks

[dashing daisy]

Okay...you like him, but you want him to stop flirting with you?

Do you want to reject him, or just want him to slow down?

[indie22]

He flirts with a lot of girls, and I just want him to realize that I am different from other girls...I want him to go further with me (not sexually,lol)

[whichwayisup]

You want him to go further with you...But not sex..You mean you want to 'date' him and take it slow? IF that is the case, then just be honest and ask him out!

[Thornton]

So you don't really want him to stop being flirtatious, because actually you like him. What you want is to be able to distinguish between the flirting he does with everyone else and the flirting he does with you, so that you can figure out whether or not he's attracted to you or whether he's just flirting because he does it to everyone. Unfortunately the only way to figure that out is either to a)Ask him out, or b)Flirt back and see where it leads. If he likes you it'll lead somewhere!

[In_Repair]

Tell him. Don't play games, just be honest. Don't just flirt back and hope to somehow stand out from all the other groupies he surrounds himself with. You'll just end up sleeping with the guy and still not be any closer to your goal, of having a real relationship with him, than you were before.

[indie22]

Originally Posted by In_Repair

Tell him. Don't play games, just be honest. Don't just flirt back and hope to somehow stand out from all the other groupies he surrounds himself with. You'll just end up sleeping with the guy and still not be any closer to your goal, of having a real relationship with him, than you were before.

I may just do that, the next time I see him...