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My ex (the commitment phobe) didn't lie....


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Old 7th November 2009, 3:58 PM   #1
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Originally Posted by leap83 View Post

So, he will be in my life.... as a friend. Nothing more. Nothing less. A dear friend.
Though I did say maybe.

While you do sound a bit defensive with a bit cognitive distortion of false dichotomy (even my mother thinks that's rather harsh), if it works for you great, and I mean that with sincerity. We all just trying to do the best we can with the limited skills we have.
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