[accemoidua]

Hi accemoudia. First of all - you are doing exactly the rght thing by going NC - if you don't . he will , in no doubt, charm his way back into your affections again. If he is truly Narcissitic, (which he is, by the description of your relationship ) he is impossible to deal with and you have no chance of ever having the depth of relationship you deserve. This type of personality disorder means he is incapbale of true love.He truly does not understand what that emotion is or means.

Yes, thank you for the encouragement. I know he is all talk, but this is so hard to come to grips with.

did yours seem like 'the Perfect Boyfriend ' for a very short period of time when you first got together? Have you been trying to get that person ( who doesn't really exist ) back, ever since then ? Please stop trying - you won't. Because he doesn't exist..

YESSSSS! lol. God yes, but he never came back all the times i took him back left me even more hurt and confused than the last.

These people ought to come with a government health warning stamped on their foreheads...

LOL, i agree.

Thinking of you and do let us know how you are getting on.

hiscamilla, thank you for your support and i am sorry that you had to come across the same type of individual. My brain is trying to grasp how he could be so cold and deceitful. He just didn't care at all and i have to admit that doesn't make me feel good. It brings about a hopeless feeling in meeting the right one because any trust that i ever had in anyone is now completely destroyed.