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When my first wife and I divorced years ago, I was crushed, and quite a mess for a while. I thought it was something I could fix, but wasn't mature enough at that age to realize that we were terribly mismatched and highly dysfuntional. Part of it was the fear of losing this particular person I had been with for years, and the other part was that I really believed I loved this person, even though they made me so unhappy.
So, after much pain and emotional trauma (about 4+ months) I started picking myself back up, and began dating again. This time though, I had grown wiser, and looked for someone who had the same goals and values that I had, rather than just be with someone because they were drop dead gorgeous.
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