[meredithm]

When he messed up:
When the ex sent him the email with a video her stripping, he wrote back and said this:

"Hey, is this because I didnt wish you a happy birthday? Anyway, email is fine, facebook sucks because whenever someone writes on my wall I have people commenting on it to me. oh, and i got your 2 voicemails here the other day sorry my cell phone's reception sucks, but it scared me because my girlfriend is crazy enough to do that"

i know what we wrote because the ex then forwarded the email to me. I was mad he was saying to her to email him and not facebook so no one would know.
the 2 voicemails refer to the fact that "apparently" someone sent a hate letter to his ex on Facebook. the ex called my boyfriend and left a message saying "hey, I got a hate letter it might be your girlfriend" but she called back 30 mins later and left another one saying "nope, wasnt her never mind"

This happened 2 weeks before the video of her strpping arrived in his email Inbox. So he knew I didnt send the hate letter but yet still called me crazy. I have asked him many times about this and he said "I meant in the few seconds between those messages I got I was scared" "I dont know what you're capable of" "youve been jealous of her in the past is what I meant" He does know he screwed up on this one and kept trying to make it up to me. Hes never screwed up before, so I let it go.

We've been together exclusively 4 months. We were together 4 months before that. We dated for a month, then the next 3 months I studied abroad and thats how we became attached. Lots of people thought this was cute because usually when people go off to study abroad they break up not become attached. We're 21 and 22; seniors in college.