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Originally Posted by LonelyTiger
I'm not one to judge the decisions that others make about their lives and ultimately we all have to be true to ourselves in order to be happy.
What I would like to stress is that when you have the conversation to end your marriage, please remember that it isn't just YOUR life you are talking about. It is the other persons life as well.
Whatever you say, you are taking away a huge part of their life. Maybe to them the best part.
While you are planning for your wonderful future you are making them feel helpless and hopeless about theirs.
If you ever truly loved this person, please remember that when you decide to tell them it's over.
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You are absolutely right. And it's hard to look at that sometimes. I feel like I am in the most selfish stage of my life. If I go through with this - to make myself happy - I am also changing the lives of everyone in my life. That's a huge responsibility.
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